Ok, so here’s my problem. I have had this boyfriend for about three months, then I broke up with him because I wasn’t giving him the attention he needed. I’m a musician so I am always composing. So today, a week later he asked me out again. He told me he doesn’t care that I can’t spend time with him all the time. Then over the schools IM and Email system, these people that I barely ever talk to decide to tell me all this crap about him, saying that he’s out asking all these different girls out like right after I broke up with him. He denies it, and so do my really close friends. My friends are telling me all he talks about is me, how much he cares about me, and how he wishes I hadn’t broken up with him. But the other people are all like he’s a player. How can I tell…is he a player?
I’m 16, he’ 15, and he go to a small school. Everyone knows everyone.
You broke up with him because you are busy. You still are. That's your reason to stay broken up. If you wanted to stay with him, you would have found a way. Because the school is so small and everyone is talking about it, give them even less to talk about and stay away from this boy. If you even think he's a player, you won't trust him. Concentrate on your music and let this go.
You are definitely in a quandry here. You have to either take a leap of faith and trust that he's not a player and hope it's true or not risk it. Why are you concerned about breaking up with him again? You already ARE broken up.
correction....i WAS broken up, it just happened today after school...and after i had broken up with him, i dreamed about him, and i kepy having the same dream over and over...me telling him i made a terrible mistake, that i still love him, and that i regret breaking up with him....and those dreams are teloling the truth.thats how i feel
Then if this is something you truly feel, then take that leap and give it a go. It would appear that you have already arrived at that decision. Good luck.
That's why it's called a leap of faith Mandy... you either believe what he says and get back with him, or not. You have no way of knowing at all, other than to trust your instincts and to trust him.
if i was in ur place i would domy work and things like that cuz the same thing happen to my friend she went out with boys who were younger than her and everyone said that he asked another girl 2 days before they broke up. and it turned to be true and me friend is in soccer and band and i'm in volleyball and band.and we talk to each other and she told me about this and i told her that dont go out with boys who are younger than her cuz 2 out of 10 boys are players. so just concertate on ur work ok.
Yes make sure to ask him and tell him to confirm his answer TODAY not TOMORROW OR A MONTH LATER! I have had this problem people will tell you lies or the truth but mostley lies cuz there jealus i made a big mistake with taking the comments what they said and broke up with him and my friend said he reallty liked me! cuz we dated for a day cuz he had my number and i had his and we talked alot. But wheever we called my friend dude she wasnt going out with but she liked him secretly, he said he justs wants a girlfriend blah blah... And i believed it and ruined it
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You broke up with him because you are busy. You still are. That's your reason to stay broken up. If you wanted to stay with him, you would have found a way. Because the school is so small and everyone is talking about it, give them even less to talk about and stay away from this boy. If you even think he's a player, you won't trust him. Concentrate on your music and let this go.