My button pusher is when people lie, and they know that they are lying. I hate it when someone accuses me or others of something that they never did. Even when faced with proof that their claim is false, they just continue to maintain their lie. I particularly hate it when you try to get to the bottom of the problem, make them see what they have done and that they are dead wrong, they won't talk or own up to their mistakes.
Anything that was a characteristic the I could not or would not change used to set me off. Then I realized that I didn't care what others said because I am who I am. And I am not so bad!
Yes, if people want to change you and not accept you for who you are, they can get lost, I think we've all met those, yet if you should criticise Them its a different matter entirely, yes, been there!
I had someone on this site call me a know-it-all - I lost it! I answer a lot of questions because i have the time to do that, and I research a lot of my answers, so I'm learning as I go. I never claimed to KNOW IT ALL!!!
My button pusher is when someone thinks they can fit me into some neat little category. I don't like being viewed that way. If someone constantly undermines me, or tries to fit me in some mold that they think I should fit, then that signals trouble in a relationship right there. I mean, who needs that kind of treatment?
I have my ex husband here with me this evening, he says he likes you (your answers!) From your pic he says he can't see the bottom half of you, you might be wearing a dress!
i hate it when someone asks me if i am OK.
they do this at work all of the time..
someone doesn't to there job and i say something about it and it is my
fault.. are you OK.. Dennis must not be filling OK today. did you hear what he said.. OK this ya bum..
Someone having preconcieved notions of who I am and what I think and believe by just looking at me or basically being totally annoying and full of themselves. If they do not want to take the time to know me then they should not make these assumptions and express them to me.
When someone misinterprets the reason I do something and then confronts me with their interpretation that isn't even in my wildest dreams....then continues to harrang the point.....
when people tell me I can not do something. Especially when my adreline begins pumping.. Also when people who do not know try to judge me! Oh that gets on my nerves.
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My button pusher is when people lie, and they know that they are lying. I hate it when someone accuses me or others of something that they never did. Even when faced with proof that their claim is false, they just continue to maintain their lie. I particularly hate it when you try to get to the bottom of the problem, make them see what they have done and that they are dead wrong, they won't talk or own up to their mistakes.