Sure sex is good... as long as you are old enough to deal with the consequences of your actions. If you are under 18, you aren't really in any position to take responsibility for anything that can happen as a result of careless sex, or sexual accidents.
Wait until you are both emotionally mature enough for this and financially capable of taking care of yourself, should something happen.
Nah... I'm just worriedsick that there seem to be a dearth of idiots that come on this site and act like morons and waste our time with useless comments and answers. WTF!!!!!!!!!!
Because having sex has so many consequences attached to it, I vote no on youthful sex. If you can define those physical consequences, know the best ways to protect yourself from them and still consider yourself morally correct and emotionally stable, then you are old enough to have sex. That's my answer and I'm stickin' to it! Enjoy all facets of your life. Love, learn, grow and be young for a long time. "Old" comes too fast!!!!!!!!
young people in general are not informed, or recognize and don't fully understand the consequences of having sex, at a young age. as a general rule they don't protect themselves from pregnancy or disease.
they also don't or can't understand the emotional impact of sex, and don't understand that people they like, can be lying. not a good idea
Im 15 and im ready what is the problem with it
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and a half
saying you wouldnt have sex that long in
i know some people are silly about it but im not i have been but i learnt its better to learn when you are younger than older sometimes
I hate it just because there is loads of young mums
But im not so why cant i and why do i get labled all the time
How is it better to have sex younger than older confused? 5 months ago, you posted a question about a possible pregnancy, even though you said you had an IUD implanted. I don't know what the results were, but you obviously are having sex. To make the assumption that it is better to have sex when you are as young as you are simply as a learning experience isn't the wisest choice. What will you do if you have another pregnancy scare. What if you do get pregnant. What if you get an STD?
Yes and i did and i am not and yes because i had to implant fitted and i had sex not long after and you can get pregnent
And yes i am constantly worried about getting pregnantn because i had an abortion when i was 13 and do you know how hard that is when you want to keep the baby but you cant because i was with my boyfriend for 2 weeks when it happened and my mum would nmot get me keep it it was out of the question !
And yes i was having sex like i said i lost it when i was 13
No not really bec
No not really because i dont have to make the mistake and yes you can get pregnant but i have known alot of adults who have got pregnant when they are 30 ecen older and didnt plan a baby
As i said i use condoms most of the time and how does anyone know that your husand or bf has an STI its trust!
Its ok i just annoyed and upset about this people not understanding us young people when most adults lost it young and its silly my nan and pap have been together since they were 14 and had underage sex no problems they are 70 now and are still together!
Yes and its hard isnt it but people do not understand i get sleepness nights i get depressed and i have been though a lot of stuff and what happened made me get a spilt personally disorder and people dont under stand that i am worried about gettin pregnant because what happened
you think u have been through lot of stuff and im not kidding i swear on my grandfathers grave i have been raped before (a lot) you don't have to believe me but its true
dear confused, when you grandparents grew up one person could support a family, and at that time even if the husband beat the wife and abused her very few woman could or would leave it was nearly unheard of. they had a different life.
what do you mean most of the time on using condoms that doesn't cut it
So men beat there wifes now and women hit there husbands
I have an implant fitted so i do most of the time but sometimes i dont and most people do that what is the problem?
you haven't finished school, you will not at this time with your education be able to guild a child through high school. you are still a child, and there is nothing wrong with being a child. but you need your education.
i do hope the best for you. you don't need to take my advice. everyone may have an opinion, mine should not offend you. i've had many years to develop it.
Yes im in the last year im doing my ed im seeing a carrers women next week im going to collage then uni for 3 years then i will hopefully become a nurse and my boyfriend understands he is collage and i help him with it and he helps me to
Thanks anyway
ur also kinda funny so what time is it on thats side and do you have any questions i can answer because nobody is picking me for best answer and i really need some points
I am 15 and i am very educated and smart about sex and that is why i try to help kids my age understand the consequences... I have gone thru life a lot faster than most and so I can honestly say most kids really do not understand anything about sex.
Well not really i learnt from mistakes BUT i would never do again
I am 15 neary 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years after what happened i have had no problems and use protection every time and i have an implant fitted
I mean its not fair on us teen my mum put me on the implant because it was safer be me i didnt want to be a teen mum and we use condoms
My mum got so many dirty looks for putting me on it but what was she emeant to do just let me get pregnant i know condoms are safe but they are not allways and i know that now
Its not fair on me because i get labled for having sex and losing it when i was 13
But that the way it goes i love my boyfriend more than anything! and sex happens when you are in love and i am sick of people saying you cant be in love this age but you can!
We are enaged (sorry if i spelt that wrong i cant spell to save my life)
And yes it is young to be enaged
But it is scary teens having sex to of my close friends are pregnant one is 8 months and one is 3 months lucky they are still with the dads but they probely will not stay around
Its fine to have sex if you are ready and i am
and as long as you dont be stupid then its fine
youre so stupid if you ask that
1.talk to your parents about how sex affects you
2.ask youre parents if they will allow you to persue a sexual relatinship
3.make sure you and the girl know wether or not you want you two want a child
4.make sure you both have enough money to feed the child and care for the child if youre going to have one
5.use protection if you dont want a child
6.after having sex wait about 24 hours until you take your women partner to take a pregnancy test&dont forget to ask the people at the store for the most acurate tester
7.if youre tested posative and youre pregnant get some knowledge on how to handle pregnancy
8.go to the hospitala an talk to doctors about youre pregnancy.dont forget to ask any questions,boy or girl
9.get insurance and start to buy clothsand other needed things for your child.
10.take a child raising class and go to counsilling to make sure you can last contractions and have a healthy relationship as a couple so you can raise a healthy family
im only 12 but i learned all this from relatives having babies
good luck
Me and almost all my friends have experienced some sort of sexual experience. I wish I would have waited so I could share the specialness with someone I love and care for. It is not something you are ready for at this age. Out of my friends there has been 1 abortion, 4 pregnant scares, 2 rapes, and 1 case of claymedia. It is not something to get right into. Wait til you are truly ready. It will be much better when you are prepared and mature and in love and just wait please!! You will not regret it if you wait...
The law says that if you live in the republic of Ireland you could have sex at 17 years old but the rest of uk : scotland, england and wales you could have sex at sixteen.
It is quite bad for your helath. But if you know what the consequences are and are ready to take fully responsibility for them. Go ahead. Nobodys going to stop you from doing it!!! But listen to the risks.........
the risks are: you could have a child, which you would have to take care of it financially and phsysically; if you are still studying then you would still have to got to school for an education and you would miss out on it.
a world-famous American sex educator, Dr. Sol Gordon, said recently at a meeting of sex educators: “I can’t think of any good reason for teenagers to have sex. Sex is a health hazard to boys and girls.” Calling teen sex a “national social disaster,” he said that “without information and education, too many teenagers are not equipped to say no.” That guidance and education best comes from parents who make clear God’s view of sex outside marriage. Teenagers need to heed what the apostle Paul told the young man Timothy: “Flee from the desires incidental to youth, but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace, along with those who call upon the Lord out of a clean heart.”
Perhaps the greatest romantic hazard is to date during your teen years. This is “the bloom of youth,” when passion is rising to peak power. “For most young people, relationships with the opposite sex . . . are frequently aggravated by an abundance of confusing sex drives.” No wonder, then, that youths often fall ‘in love’ with the greatest of ease.
Wisely, then, the Bible recommends marriage only for those “past the bloom of youth.” (1 Corinthians 7:36) This would rule out dating while a person is still very young. Following this advice may not be easy, but it will certainly “remove vexation from your heart, and ward off calamity from your flesh” if you do not date until you are old enough to marry.
Source www.watchtower.com
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Consider some very important factors like the possibility of becoming pregnant or getting a sexually transmitted disease and emotional factors, too. Though a person's body may feel ready for sex, sex also has very serious emotional consequences.
Although some teens who are going out don't pressure each other about sex, the truth is that in many relationships, one person wants to have sex although the other one doesn't.
No. sex should only be part of an adult relationship.
Yes it's fun and exciting, plus it feels good in body as well as mind but you need a full understanding before you start to explore this part of your life.
The bottom line is there's a lot more to sex than meets the eye. With it comes responsibility as well as the health aspects, not just for you but whoever you choice to share the experience with.
Young teenagers should be more interested in other things rather than trying to grown up too fast. There's lots to learn about the in's and out's (excuse the pun) of sex before you start to make it happen.
Not being a virgin doesn't make you feel any different, you remain the same person.
Remember the best things come to those who wait.