TROUBLESOME TEENAGE SONS

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Asked by kickland 2 weeks ago in parenting

MY SON IS 17 IN A FEW WEEKS.THE PROBLEM IS HE HAS GOT IN WITH THE WRONG CROWD,SINCE THEN HE HAS BECOME ABUSIVE TO ME-HE HAS NOT HIT ME-YET! BUT HE MIGHT ONE DAY.HE IS CONSTANTLY TELLING ME THAT IM A F****** BITCH AND HOW HE HATES ME.HE USED TO BE SO LOVING AND CARING BUT NOW NOTHING. I REALLY DONT NO WOT TO DO,WE HAVE THROWN HIM OUT BEFORE, HE CAME BACK SAYING HE WAS SORRY BLAH BLAH BLAH BUT THE NEXT DAY HE WAS BACK TO HIS NOW USUAL SELF.I REALLY DONT NO WOT TO DO ANYMORE.

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Richard / Retired Dentist

Answered 2 weeks ago

I have two solutions for you depending on your finances. If you can afford it, send him to a military boarding school. I promise you he will learn some respect and have a chance to make something of himself.
If that is too expensive, find a boot camp to send him to. You must break the bad companion associations. That takes overwhelming watchfulness or a new environment. Throwing him out is no solution. He is too young for that. If you can't lay down the rules, get him somewhere where they will.

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heather_june Heather - 'THING' !!!! / Addams Family Camper!!!

Answered 2 weeks ago

You and your husband have to make him give you respect. Your son must learn that there are consequenses for actions. I think you should both ground him and stop his privileges. If he should become violent, your only recourse is to phone the police. Your son is asking for the line to be drawn, draw it very clearly. You cannot have a situation whereby your son rules and disrespects you both; there will be fireworks but you have to stamp this out now by whatever means.

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If you have to throw him out then do so, he Must learn that you won't put up with his abuse, and keep him out, don't allow him back the next day for the same thing to start all over again. You will have to put your foot down and keep it down. Tell him he had his chance the last time and he blew it!

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sexyls

Answered 1 week ago

he just need someone to guide him and show him what road A holds for him and what road B hold for him.

you should just sit down in talk about the problems that u have with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Source my mom goes through the sme thing with my brother.

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