I think you already know the answer in your heart. Cheating once is bad enough. But two or three times in 7 months? Come on. Honestly, do you really think he's changed and is now trustworthy? You'd really be taking your chances if you took him back. Claiming to have found God...do you really believe this is true? Or is it just an excuse to get you back and then revert to his old behavior? You should have thrown him to the curb the first time he cheated on you. He didn't take your wedding vows very seriously, did he? The decision is ultimately yours to make...but like the saying goes "Once a cheat, always a cheat." Think your situation over very carefully...this is your future your planning here. Good luck.

once, twice three times your out, IN THE COLD. but it's up to you, only you know if your better without him. if you do go back make sure he's tested for STD's

His track record is horrible, to say the least. He CLAIMS to have found God, which sounds pretty convenient to me. He cheated on you before you married him, which should have been a big red flag waving for you after the first time. You allowed him two more chances. That would be two too many chances. You have no guarantees that he won't cheat again.

The only reason he's asking you to take him back is probably because he got dumped. You're convenient and you always let him come back, and he's banking on you to do to that again until temptation strikes again.

You've been more than patient and reasonable. Dump the chump and get on with your life. You deserve someone that can be faithful to you, and you only. You deserve happiness... don't throw it away on this guy anymore.

Once a cheater always a cheater... That is sad that he uses God as a loop hole out of cheatin! You may love him but is it a one way street? Two way street? 4 way stop? Or wrong direction?

Its a question of how you feel, are you in love with him? I mean, really? or was he a habit. From what you have said we all say dump him but ultimately you're the one to decide. Strikes me that he hasn't grown up enough to know what real happiness and true love is, he doesn't know his own mind. He doesn't really know who he is by the sound of it, he certainly hasn't taken his vows seriously, and look at how he's treated you. Could you trust him? Not as far as you could throw him.

He has a lot of growing up to do - and can you wait? It could be a very long time. Meanwhile you are wasting your life.

If you really deeply love someone, you don't cheat on them, you don't want to. I think you already know that. Life is short, mistakes made now are to be avoided at all costs.

I think he now finds himself alone.. he doesn't want that. Not a good enough reason to come running back to you. Don't be second best. Found God? Piffle!!! He has to find himself first!

A word of WARNING: Don't go back with him because you feel sorry for him. Soo easily done.

how many people claim thy have found god once they get throw in jail?
it always seems that they find god right after they can't find another way out..
i don't believe that he wants to change or he would have already done so.

When two people decide to live together, expectations are high, but the reality can be very different from their expectations. One or both parties can feel something is badly wrong and, rather than discuss and resolve, seek comfort in the company of someone who mollifies the insecurity, makes him/her feel wanted again. That is the recipe for an affair. It may not be too late, first or second time round, to get to the bottom of the problem. But each time there is infidelity there is an erosion of trust. After so many lies, the damage to your trust is now irreparable. Bringing his god into the picture only adds yet another outsider for you to compete with.

Exit with some self respect and start to build a new life. You can do better. There are plenty of people, even on anonymous boards like this, to support you.

Fool me once, shame on you.

Fool me twice, shame on me.

I'd say quit being the fool here. He didn't just find God and even if he did he's still a cheating a$$hole. Find yourself someone worthy of your love.

I FULLY believe in this sentance:

PEOPLE TREAT YOU HOW YOU ALLOW THEM TO TREAT YOU!

Keep being the doormat and that's all you're ever going to be. Is that what you expected for your happily ever after? Is that the kind of home you want to raise your kids in?

Think about it.

Give him every chance...
Go to church with him Sun AM
and they probably have bible readings on thursday...
What about the divorce he was filling...