At an early age she was anorexic and the result is sterility. She can not get pregnant. I really do like this girl, she is the most fascinating and interesting girl I ever met. What would you do at this situation? How would you react?
what she had as a young girl made her the GREAT person she is now. I never met a women on her age that is so mature, so sincere, so reliable and I know, it’s the first time ever, there is a girl out there that LOVE ME more than ever before :-(
That kind of charming personality you don’t meet every day. The Anorexia caused her to become that women I know. She is such a mature person with a very good thinking about what is important in life and future, which is the same as mine.
It makes me feel very bad, very sad. She told me this at our third date. We knew it was going towards a serious relationship. She gave me time to be with myself, to think and decide what I want to do and decide if I want to continue with our relationship.
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It is no problem. If you want children, adopt. You will love them just as much, maybe more since you chose them. If you don't want children, you are lucky to have a great relationship anyway. I think you are fortunate.
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ranimi23, if you really love this girl, it should not matter. there are ways round the infertiley. check into them. good luck, ok midnite4633
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If her weight comes up to normal, maybe there's a way to jump start her menstrual cycle.
"Yes, in order for a woman to menstruate, become pregnant, and give birth to a healthy baby she needs body fat. Many anorexic girls and women either never get their period or their period stops due to extreme weight loss. The cessation of menstruation, (amenorrhea), can be permanent depending on how long a woman has been suffering from anorexia. But for most women menstruation will start up when they begin to gain weight.
Roughly 80% of anorexic women who successfully treat their eating disorder will regain their ability to conceive.
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your young, enjoy your time together. just seeing someone is not a life commitment.
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Are you in this relationship for children or for the relationship. If you truly love this woman, she returns your love, has been forthcoming with you and you know that you can't live without her, then I think the answer is obvious.
Adoption is a win/win situation. You get to have children and these children get to have a loving home where they will be cherished and nurtured. Who cares that this woman didn't actually give birth to the child, the child will still be yours. You will have the same experiences as with a child that you both created. You will go through teething, walking, talking, school plays, birthdays, vacations, and all the other things that a family experiences.
A family isn't necessarily something that is a result of blood ties... a family is something that is bound by the heart.
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If you truly love this girl, then just because she can't get pregnant should not stand in your way. IF you and her plan on getting together and getting married, there are other options. You can adopt, sometimes it is hard to adopt a baby, but there are other countries that have tons and tons of children needing homes. If you have enough money and want children you could think about a suregate. Also foster care, although not permentent is another option. If you truly love this girl then her being sterile should be no problem, there are lots of other solutions
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go get her! what are you waiting for?!?!? adoption is not bad. im adopted and i love my parents as if they were my bio.
GO GET HER!
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If you know you want children in the future then make sure she knows this. because she cant have children she may have come to terms with this and never care to be a mother.
By being honest with you from the off she clearly thinks a lot about you and sounds like a great girl.
If you want to be with her i say live for the now and cross the child bridge if and when you get to it.
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If you really love this woman, if you want to be with her, I agree with the others.. go for it and congratulations, I will be very, very happy for you.
You are very lucky.
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The more time you take thinking, is going to be the more time you make her feel like she's half a woman..You stressed GREAT person, and LOVE, but not infertile. I think you should notice that.. Your answers, is in your own words.
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