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I have known a girl for 3 years. We have had communication almost every day in that time. We are both adults and at her birthday party (She is my best friend and was super happy to see me) yesterday I was feeling so happy and on top of the world that I told her that I liked her since I first met her. oops... I really like her tho I did not say anything untrue. Then she said we need to hang out more. I said (paraphrasing) "sure when are you available" and am waiting..... Given the circumstance what would you do in this situation /Guys, and women what might be going through your head?
But she just now said she wants to hang out as friends and see what happens so all is good I think
Any hints, pointers etc..
Sorry for the continuous update I asked the question at a bad time but I am now going to a dance with her soon (her idea) so I am being hopeful and I hope for the best.
Her words about going to the dance "yay, ok this is going to be so much fun. im excited now "
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ok here we go, I'm ready to answer this one!
I think it's great that you stepped up and were honest with her about your feelings, you deff. didn't do it to early since you guys have been getting to know each other for awhile. I do wonder if in the time that you guys have spent together, why it never came up..and am hoping that if she does in fact just see you as her closest friend that she would tell you. However she did say she wanted to "see what happens" which means there's definitely a possibility that she could see you as more than just a friend. Perhaps she's the type of person that takes dating really seriously and moves more slowly when looking to get into a relationship which is perfectly fine. Im curious to know how things went at the dance. I know you don't want to like scare her away but i guess I'm just a really blunt person..i feel like if the topic came up again it could be perfectly appropriate to ask her if she thinks she could ever see herself with you. But bottom line, obviously your comment didn't change the strong bond that y'all have and now that she knows your feelings you guys can move forward…and you have yourself a valentine this valentines day which is more than some of us can say so ur a pretty lucky guy id say!
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Honestly I think maybe she wants to get to know you more in person. So if that's what she suggested then I guess go for it. It doesn't necessarily mean that she doesn't like you or anything but I'm guessing she needs time to think about it or to judge you which most women in general tend to do before they make any moves into a relationship. But on the other hand if she is avoiding you and talking to you less now, that can be something to be worried about because even if she wanted to get to know you better in person she'd probably have asked you when you two were going out together or maybe just spend time. So it depends whether she's looking forward to get to know you better or if she's just not giving it any attention. Either she's thinking, "I wonder if he is the right one or is he just trying to screw me over, maybe I need to meet him in person more so that I can judge if he is really into me or what" or she could be thinking, "Damn that's not how I expected him to be so i'm just gonna let things loosen up and drift off of me so I don't have to answer him on this one". So it can mean anything that's just an example of what I guess most women would think to themselves. Anyways Good Luck!!! :D
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I personally don't think you did anything wrong.. Me and my boyfriend of 2 years have been dating and the same thing happend. he told me that he liked me and i said well lets hang out more and talk more and see where it goes.. and now its really good!(: sooo keep your head up!(: i'm sure you will like the outcome everything takes times and patience!!!!(; Kyle waited 6 months for us too work!(: and everything is good!(: so i think you will be with her!! just give it time!!(:
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maybe it's just me - but I would take that as meaning "when you are available for sex". Think she could have mistaken your meaning? You might want to be sure she knows what you really meant instead of just waiting and hoping.
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I know your looking for a womans point of view but as a man I just have to say. (((3 years bro))) lol it's time to see if anything is going to happen as far as any relationship goes. Good luck ;-)
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Really :)
asking women to clue you in on what her thoughts might be. All you'll get is the pg version of the classic fortune cookie advice.
You honestly expect them let a guy have the upper hand in knowing her relationship intentions!?
Not going happen!
I only know of one woman on here, that I think would consider it, and that's only if she has her glass of whiskey on a dry night.
Though, you could have the type of reliability your question is seeking, but your in love with woman that would of given it to you. Catch 22 bro!
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Well, as a woman, if she 'wanted' you??? You would know it by now!! it sure wouldn't take me three years to let a man know I was interested. I think you need to move on and keep her a friend while you have the chance!! Just MY humble opinion. :-)
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Just call and meet and take it from there. Sounds like you both like each other so go for it.
PS. Wait for Shyla's answer she has a good head on her shoulders.
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ok here we go, I'm ready to answer this one!
I think it's great that you stepped up and were honest with her about your feelings, you deff. didn't do it to early since you guys have been getting to know each other for awhile. I do wonder if in the time that you guys have spent together, why it never came up..and am hoping that if she does in fact just see you as her closest friend that she would tell you. However she did say she wanted to "see what happens" which means there's definitely a possibility that she could see you as more than just a friend. Perhaps she's the type of person that takes dating really seriously and moves more slowly when looking to get into a relationship which is perfectly fine. Im curious to know how things went at the dance. I know you don't want to like scare her away but i guess I'm just a really blunt person..i feel like if the topic came up again it could be perfectly appropriate to ask her if she thinks she could ever see herself with you. But bottom line, obviously your comment didn't change the strong bond that y'all have and now that she knows your feelings you guys can move forward…and you have yourself a valentine this valentines day which is more than some of us can say so ur a pretty lucky guy id say!
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