I personally think it is disgusting and very hurtful to the people that he makes rude comments and threats to.I am upset to think that I am going to lose my AP freinds over this as he brings my name into it all the time and is really nice to me and nasty to my friends at the same time.I have never come accross this sort of behaviour before and every time the phanton arrives it seems like he is trying to turn everyone against me by pretending I am his friend,loved one,etc..How do you all feel about this situation and any suggestions of what we can do? Look AP has all our emails so surely this stalker can be tracked,!
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Don't worry, you're not going to lose us Sandy, I'm only too pleased that you know now about such people, there's lots of them about unfortunately. He has all the classic traits of a sociopath. They lie and lie and lie. They play games, they gaslight. Did you ever go on that web site, lovefraud?
They are envious of nice people, of good people, and they are wracked with self loathing, nothing you say can ever change their warped minds and way of thinking, the nicer we are, the more they want to try and destroy us - you've seen that for yourself now; we are the people they love to target. They are laughing at us but what they will not realise is that we are laughing at them, but they don't care! Hard isn't it, for us to digest it, but digest it we must. These people will never be happy; are we to pity them then, for their bad life? Not on your life! Never. They are No good - to anyone, not even themselves. They are nothing less than vermin. He is only still here because we react and, tempting as it is, we must not because he gets a thrill out of it, he feeds off of it therefore he has to be starved and flagged every time.
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I am so pleased to see you put this in writing Sandy. I, for one, appreciate your concern for your fellow askpedians. He really has been trying to turn us against you, but now that you have spoken out against him, I think people will realize that he has been victimizing you too. Because he keeps changing user names and email addresses, it is sometimes difficult to trace him, which is why he can keep coming back. But I assure you - he is under investigation - he will be caught - and can you imagine the defamation of character, plus death threat evidence he has provided AP with? Hang in there, because he may turn on you now too. If he does, flag, delete, report - he doesn't deserve a reply or comment.
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Wow! You've got guts, girl. Now you will be on his hit list. AP knows exactly who our "phantom" is. It is San95. We all know that. AP is really trying to get rid of him. Only someone who is a mentally ill sociopath like our "phantom", will continue to come on here to stir things up in a truly pathetic way to exact vengeance for having been banned for his antisocial behavior.
It is because you have posted this concern that I am responding, and I have to tell you that we need to stop posting about him and talking to him and about him. He has asked Eoinsully to commit suicide and wants my ex to murder me. Sad, really...that so many wonderful people on here are being abused, threatened and slandered. We must present a terrible threat to his extremely fragile ego to be so fiercely attacked.
He really and truly thinks that we are constantly in touch with each other in an effort to control a site that is not in our control. He also thinks that we are just in it for the rewards and notoriety. That is the classical definition of paranoia. Whatever our reasons are for being here, they are entirely altruistic. We know why we are here, and that's what is important.
Your having taken a courageous stand here has now made you a target, but stand with us and let our strength and courage hold you up. We'll get past this. Ignore all efforts he makes to threaten you or gain your alliance. Don't let him draw you into this any further. Even if we never get rid of San, stand up for yourself and your principles to him and you will come out of the other side of this vindicated and strong.
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what a sad person this Phanton is - doesn't he realise the only one being hurt by this is him - hopefully the Phanton will 'grow' out of this or will AP be forced to take legal action to remove him/she lets hope it's the first one and he/she GROWS UP
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I think the PHANTOM suffers from little pecker syndrom, ingnor him and he will go away. Play his game and he stays near to play. Or if he likes He will stay at home playing with himself and his computer for who else would wish to "Pester" people online anyway other then weak willed people with no lives, also called cowards. mind my spelling one day Ap will add a spell check for us fast typers with bad spelling. (hint hint) go cow bell!
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There is only one way report him and i know that if rights bad stuff about my questions that i'm going to report him.After you report him tell your friends and everything will go back to normal and if they don't believe you show them that you are reporting him. Good Luck!!!
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hey look.. i think jus because that fuckwit thinks he can do watever he wants it doesnt mean that he can change a persons life around.. ther are idiots everywhere and i don't give a shit about wat he is doing.. u wont lose any1 sandy.. i know that we or i really, dont know u at all but im sure that every else that knows who u are wont turn against you.. if they r good friends in any way then they will not betray u ova some loser that jus likes 2 cause trouble between friends.. me personally, people like him.. i like 2 dish it out and keep going till they gets the shits.. i do it all the time 2 people like that.. i jus keep going an going.. giving them so much shit till they cant handle it.. it always works 4 me but i think u shuldnt wori bout it at all coz at the end of the day hes th 1 thats losing out.. he jus doesnt know it yet..
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