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Asked by brianna7 9 months ago in other
i have had enufe iv been getting advice on this for a while and it has been helping but this time im ready to exploed with tears they wont quit bullying me and now there starting to bully me online and i just start to burst out in tears while my parents are right in front of me and i dont know what to do can someone help me?
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worriedsick Lynne / R.T.(R)(M), BS
Answered 9 months ago
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First of all, if the abuse is happening online, you might want to consider changing your screen name and set up security measures for your email and instant messages. If you're not sure how to do that, have your parents help you. If they can't contact you, they can't harrass you. Do not give your new screen name out to anybody but your most trusted friends. Make sure that they are aware that they are not to share it.

I was bullied in grade school and junior high. By the time I got to high school, they were too busy with finding boyfriends and keeping up with the latest clothing styles and obsessing about relationships to focus on me anymore. These people finally do give up in time. They only have power if you give it to them. If you ignore them (and yes, I know how ridiculous that sounds and how hard it is to do), they stop getting the responses that they want. They want to see you miserable and in pain. If they don't get that response, they will move on to some other new victim.

Have you spoken with your folks about this? Are they helping you? A little counseling will go a long way to help give you the tools to cope with this and find a way to empower yourself so that you will never be bullied again.

Have you been able to convince your parents to change schools? If not, ask for the counseling, and I'm quite sure that your counselor will urge your parents to do this and will involve them in the process so that they know how to help you.

I saw that this is your fourth question about bullying and the fact that you are on here asking for help tells me that you are not getting the support you need at home or are not sure how to ask for it. I hope that you've started a dialogue with your folks about all of this and that you are making progress. If you don't talk to them, they don't know what's wrong or how to help you.

As a parent, myself, I have always made myself available to my daughter whenever she has needed me. I had parents that I could never talk to and when I really needed them, I knew that there was nowhere to go. That is why I know that available parents are so important.

If you have started talking to them about this, tell them what you are telling us. I can't imagine that they wouldn't be willing to help you. If they aren't sure what to do, suggest what we've been telling you on here.
heather_june Heather - 'THING' !!!! / Addams Family Camper!!!
Answered 9 months ago
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I think you should call the police if you have not already done so - this cannot be allowed to continue.
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