See, I found out in grade 4 that it is possible to hide things from your parents. My parents haven't always found out. Lately, my mom (who once told me, when I lost my lunch bag, that I wasn't allowed to come home unless I found it) has been finding out about approx. 90% of every thing im hidding. I'm currently in grade 9, and my parents were planning to take me to Winnipeg for the weekend. I had hid a Math test in my room this weekend, and when my mom phoned to make sure I was home, she said "We'll see if your going to Winnipeg tommorow, after we talk about your math. I'm not happy with you. When will you learn." So I said "k". After I hung up, I ran to my room, and opened my drawer to where I was hidding my test. It was gone. I am soooo... scared that my parents are not going to let me go to Winnipeg this weekend, and I really want to (not only because I will be missing school). My dad won't be home till late, but I know he is going to give me the famous speech about 'how disapointed he is in me.' I know that my mom would be more than happy to make me stay here for the weekend. What do I do? Can I possibly get my mom to not tell my dad about this?
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I am sorry that you have made it necessary for your parents to have to check up on you. You found out in your youth that they missed a few things you hid from them, except that they caught on to you. Now there is no place to hide. So stop trying. Your parents are asking you to do the things that you should do, your homework etc. It isn't for their future that they want you to pay attention to your responsibilites, it is for yours. Something everyone needs to learn early is that fun and wishes come after handling the things that need to be done. So do your math homework that you hid when your mother gives it to you, and promise to do the things you should do to be trusted once again. Then make sure you keep your promise, whether you are allowed to go to Winnipeg or not. That is the only way you will earn their trust and become a mature responsible adult. I hope that if your parents trust your word and allow you to go that you repay them with keeping your promise. Good luck.
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i believe your mother will talk to your father about this, you should of went to your mother or father instead of hiding the problem and showed them the teast and ask for help understanding the studies better, they would of been upset for the low score but, would help you study and appricate the fact that you came to them, try being open and honest instead of getting your self into more trouble in the long run, or find a better place for those test aka your locker?
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I think you are going to have a heart to heart with your mother and to make a promise (that you will keep) to her, that you will always be honest in future as you know there is no point in lying and being deceitful - you will always be found out. Not only that, it isn't good for you to carry on like this. You will have to tell her - and mean it - that you are going to change, then you will have to hope that she doesn't tell your father and will give you another chance. Then change, for your sake - you don't want this happening again and again now do you?
say sorry - and mean it.
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First, apologize.
Act really sweet and say I love you and give themhugs and kisses =]]]]
Write them a letter...and tell them. You are sorry. Your Behavior...and why it was a concern/problem. Why you understand they are upset....What you will change from here on in.
Take responsibility for your actions, this shows that you understand that what you did was WRONG and that it won't happen again. Focus on important stuff like school and extra curriculars. Do anything that can help your parents. Take every opportunity to make your parents proud of you. They'll come around and forget your bad phase. You ask them to give you trust back....and you will prove you deserve it. Their job as well as yours..is to remember and to change...that is part of forgiveness.
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