Late last year my father was in a bad motorcycle accident, so I know firsthand how this can affect a persons life. Witnessing what he went through was devestating, and I felt helpless. Just wanted you to know I've been there.

my father had a veryu bad car accident when i was in 5th grade, i was told he wasnt going to live and if he did he would have special needs and wouldnt be abel to walk :(. But, after 3 months in the icu, and lots of therpy, after being bed ridden for months, he can now walk, i was the only person there to take care of him, putting on shoes, making food, ect. the thing thaty hurt the most is the fact that i could of lost my dad, and seeing him in so much pain at the time. But, when you love someone reguardless of sex or age, you will do what you can to help that person live a everyday life. I would never leave my b/f if something like this happened to him, he is my other half i complete him and he completes me reguarless what the situation may be. if i was the person that need help due to a back probelm i know i would be sad at first but then adjust, and realise that i am lucky to be here and that there are people out there that have it way worse off.