Ok so my best friend has been married for almost a year now and has a 1 year old baby with her husband. In the past they have had fights about him talking to other girls on myspace. Which lead to the termination of his myspace. Well they have been fighting now because he hasnt been home and he isnt helping with their baby and things and he recently shut off her phone. I recently found his new myspace stating hes single, has a baby and is "trying to get out of things" with dozens of hot girls from our area. How should I tell my best friend about this because I do not want him to know and I dont want to be the start of a new fight. Please help.
The key word is might! You don't know for sure, and you have no proof that he's cheating! He might just be looking for attention. Leave it alone! If he is cheating, your friend will find out soon enough. Don't add to her suspicions.
I think it depends on how close of a friend she is. If you are very close
you should let her know. Put yourself in her shoes. Wouldn't you want to
know? And wouldn't you be hurt if you knew your best friend knew and
didn't tell you? You'd feel betrayed. Even worse what if he *is* sleeping around
and contracts something and gives it to her. I have had this exact experience
and my friend now has v.d that she will be scarred with for the rest of her life.
The day he went public on the net hunting down women it no longer is a private
matter. She should kick him to the curb...for sure, as painful as it may be.
You can't call someone a thief unless he/she is caught red-handed. There isn't any problem bout him talking to other girls on my space. Men do like to make friends exp, female friends. He's away from home because men don't like nagging wife. Moreover, him been out of home doesn't mean that he's cheating. He is just tryna stay away from drama... U love ur friend right? Please i beg you, don't involve yourself in there marital life. let your friend figure it out her self cuz u weren't there when they were making vows....
As a woman I would like to know if my partner/husband was playing me. Its not nice but obviously his interests lay elsewhere. Tell your friend to set him up as one of the women in myspace and meet up with him in a public plaee as a date. Mention to her you do not want to get involved but you felt that she should know. I think she should know , the earlier the better so she can deal with it and move on and not waste precious time on a cheating husband! Ask yourself wouldnt you like to know?