You certainly don't need to go along with things that are against your principles. It might be a good thing to examine each suggestion separately and see how it would affect you. What's important to look at is what these issues do to you, to be open to explore with your husband the meanings of these issues for you, as well as his desire for them. If these issues cannot be discussed in a constructive manner with your husband on your own, I would definitely recommend counseling, before things escalate even more. This is o...

You certainly don't need to go along with things that are against your principles. It might be a good thing to examine each suggestion separately and see how it would affect you. What's important to look at is what these issues do to you, to be open to explore with your husband the meanings of these issues for you, as well as his desire for them. If these issues cannot be discussed in a constructive manner with your husband on your own, I would definitely recommend counseling, before things escalate even more. This is one case where counseling seems to work because the issues will be discussed.
You might try an increase in other activities that you do together. Any mutual interest would qualify. A sport, perhaps, a few sets of tennis night help; or maybe music or dancing. You might try becoming more active in your church life together. The ideas are endless, but the principle is more variety of activity,

The average man's sex life stays the same or even improves once he ties the knot. To ensure this outcome, do what good pitchers do--throw changeups into your nightlife at least once a week. "Novelty is good for sex, and I don't just mean novel sex. Novelty in your social life," Fisher says. It can be as simple as skipping dinner to play miniature golf or listening to a live band instead of the car radio. Anything that makes the start of your date less predictable can change up the ending, as well.
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The average man's sex life stays the same or even improves once he ties the knot. To ensure this outcome, do what good pitchers do--throw changeups into your nightlife at least once a week. "Novelty is good for sex, and I don't just mean novel sex. Novelty in your social life," Fisher says. It can be as simple as skipping dinner to play miniature golf or listening to a live band instead of the car radio. Anything that makes the start of your date less predictable can change up the ending, as well.

A Kinsey Institute study found that nearly one-quarter of women reported some distress in their sexual relationships in the preceding month. One of the most common causes of dissatisfaction: boredom. "The common denominator of satisfied couples is that they're very playful," says sex therapist Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author of The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Oral Sex. "My definition of sex is adult play. It should be fun and recreational. You should laugh and release all those pleasure endorphins. A sense of humor is an essential ingredient in great sex because it takes pressure off performance." Toys = instant play. Shop together at a toy store (the kids' kind) for playthings you can bring into the bedroom. Imagine the possibilities with washable paint, masks, water pistols, and toy handcuffs.

Here's simple advise beside bedroom sex to keep warm relationship.

Of course, men have a vested interest in helping women know what men want. Here's your crib sheet to wowing any man.
1. Laugh with Us -- and at Us

Men don't measure mates against the Victoria's Secret catalog. In fact, only 12 percent of men say that superficial stuff matters more than a woman's sense of humor, smarts, or sweet demeanor. That trio proves irresistible to more than 75 percent of our readers. But of the three, sense of humor is most important--it serves as our mental matchmaker. "It's a sign of intellectual compatibility," says Billy Goldberg, M.D., coauthor of Why Do Men Fall Asleep after Sex? "You can't just be a laugh track. Men want a woman who is as comfortable relating her own ridiculous anecdote as she is listening to ours."

Humor actually serves three roles. First, it defuses awkward situations, says David Borgenicht, coauthor of The Worst-Case Scenario Survival Handbook: Dating and Sex. So the dinner your guy just charred is hilarious, not disgusting. Second, it identifies common ground: "Really? You loved Blades of Glory, too?" And most important, it shows your spine--our high-school yearbook photo or encyclopedic grasp of baseball stats probably deserves to be skewered, after all. So go ahead, take men down a notch. Wield your humor wisely and men will be hooked for good.

2. Take Your Affection Outside

Ninety-seven percent of Men's Health readers, which is as close to unanimous as it gets, want a woman who's willing to show her love in public. "Men want a woman who's confident enough in her sexuality to make a move, no matter the circumstances," says Neil Chethik, author of VoiceMale.

That doesn't mean you should suck face at the Four Seasons. Subtle displays--a close kiss during a walk, a graze of his thigh in the car, even a smoldering look shot across a crowded dinner party--can stoke his fires. His hips will tell you how passionately to pounce: Only half of all PDA-friendly guys want a full-on makeout session in public. If he moves closer, that's your green light to heat things up.

3. Use extra sex toys to keep his sexual stuff renewed.

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