One, there are many things that can go wrong in a relationship. I’m 15, and I just broke up with my first boyfriend, and I thought he was the best. Now he has gone out with three of my BFFs’. Guys can be jerks sometimes, but hey, you can’t anything about it. I’m not sure if your timid, or hyper, or out going, but get up in his face and say you are over him but still demand respect. Tell him you are over him even though you may not be. Then move on. The right man will find you....

One, there are many things that can go wrong in a relationship. I’m 15, and I just broke up with my first boyfriend, and I thought he was the best. Now he has gone out with three of my BFFs’. Guys can be jerks sometimes, but hey, you can’t anything about it. I’m not sure if your timid, or hyper, or out going, but get up in his face and say you are over him but still demand respect. Tell him you are over him even though you may not be. Then move on. The right man will find you.

Would you agree with me that you should not waste any more time in someone who does not feel the same way you do.You are right you deserve respect but are things we can not control and one of these are what others do but you can control yourself and my advise is to choose someone who deserves you because from your picture you are a beautiful young person.
I have been there in your shoes and when we want to love someone we even
allow fantasies to override reason. One young woman said in a article abo...

Would you agree with me that you should not waste any more time in someone who does not feel the same way you do.You are right you deserve respect but are things we can not control and one of these are what others do but you can control yourself and my advise is to choose someone who deserves you because from your picture you are a beautiful young person.
I have been there in your shoes and when we want to love someone we even
allow fantasies to override reason. One young woman said in a article about crushes.. “Whenever I ask him how he feels—he always denies having any feelings for me. But I can tell by the way he looks and acts that this isn’t true.” The young man in question has tried to be kind in expressing his disinterest, but she just won’t take no for an answer.
While most crushes are amazingly short-lived, still they can do a lot of damage to a youth. For one thing, many objects of teenage affection are simply not worthy of esteem.
One youth-oriented magazine, says“crushes are as common as colds.” Almost all youths experience them, and almost all manage to survive to adulthood, with their pride and sense of humor intact. However, when you are caught in the grip of a crush, there is little to laugh about. “Just remember these feelings will pass look for good things ahead and do not think anymore in this person who hurt you.

Well, I guess my first question would be was this guy with the GF when you decided to tell him? If so, that might be the cause of your problems. While I understand that it sounds like you've had feelings for this guy for a long time and told him only in a moment of weakness. It could be the GF that is causing the distance...either directly or indirectly. He may be upset that you told him when he's in a relationship - like you were disrespecting his relationship with his girl (not your intention of course, but it could f...

Well, I guess my first question would be was this guy with the GF when you decided to tell him? If so, that might be the cause of your problems. While I understand that it sounds like you've had feelings for this guy for a long time and told him only in a moment of weakness. It could be the GF that is causing the distance...either directly or indirectly. He may be upset that you told him when he's in a relationship - like you were disrespecting his relationship with his girl (not your intention of course, but it could feel that way) or he may feel guilty that he liked what you were saying but feels torn because of his feelings for the girlfriend.
My advice for what it's worth, give him some time...

Dont talk to him dont call him or anything. he might call you back. and if he doesnt move on.

Don't push it. He told you he just wants to be friends so just let it be. You might feel like he's ignoring you because you were expecting more attention from him. Believe me, he won't give it to you. The more you try to be his friend, the more he'll try to avoid you. Just give it some room. If he genuinely wants to be your friend, he will make an effort to at least smile and have some casual talks with you. Guys are easily bothered by girls who keeps throwing themselves to them. They feel smothered. Sorry to break it t...

Don't push it. He told you he just wants to be friends so just let it be. You might feel like he's ignoring you because you were expecting more attention from him. Believe me, he won't give it to you. The more you try to be his friend, the more he'll try to avoid you. Just give it some room. If he genuinely wants to be your friend, he will make an effort to at least smile and have some casual talks with you. Guys are easily bothered by girls who keeps throwing themselves to them. They feel smothered. Sorry to break it to you, but you gotta move on. It's hard to act upon but as you do, slowly, you'll make it. You'll just see him as a friend sooner or later. You'll find someone much worthy of you and when you do, you'll realise you're just wasting your time and feelings over this guy.

The best thing you can do is tell him exactly how you feel. If he doesn't comply with your wish that he treat you respectfully, then he's just not worth hanging out with.

You did just this, and he's not respecting you. His friendship, it seems to me, should have no value to you.

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The best thing you can do is tell him exactly how you feel. If he doesn't comply with your wish that he treat you respectfully, then he's just not worth hanging out with.

You did just this, and he's not respecting you. His friendship, it seems to me, should have no value to you.

I'm terribly sorry and good luck.I've actually gone through something similar to this more than once--my ex, when we were dating, was not only my boyfriend but also my best friend; he proceeded to break my heart and ignore my requests that we remain friends. And I can tell you that, frankly, anything like that sucks balls. It's going to be hard to accept that he's kind of a jerk and that he's not a part of your life anymore. But the (other) best thing you can do is keep living life. Focus on school, music, sports, whatever it is you love. And most importantly, love youself.

Again, good luck.

Honestly,As I read your issue, I was impress by your confidence to tell a guy what's really their in your heart or the feeling towards him! You've been blessed by the power to say whats in your heart because not everyone especially girls can be brave enough to do the same thing you did.With regard to the topic issue, the best thing that you can do is to learn to let go. By how? the simplest thing to do is to confine all your feeling to God and when you do,then its time to face and accept the reality.A reality that he ne...

Honestly,As I read your issue, I was impress by your confidence to tell a guy what's really their in your heart or the feeling towards him! You've been blessed by the power to say whats in your heart because not everyone especially girls can be brave enough to do the same thing you did.With regard to the topic issue, the best thing that you can do is to learn to let go. By how? the simplest thing to do is to confine all your feeling to God and when you do,then its time to face and accept the reality.A reality that he never give back the love your longing for and that he is committed to someone else.Don't let your emotion flaws you because if you did,your heart is in risk and may lead to pain, sorrow and heartache.Save your love to whom you know he deserve to have.Don't waste your time and effort for someone who treat you bad.Hope I'll help you to get through to our problem.

Dear bfare, Please let this guy go. HE is looking for a way to walk away. We cant make others love us no matter how much you want it. There is someone out there for you dont give up. Just try to be the best kind of person you can and the right person will come to you. I have granddaughters who have gone thru this so many times and I know how you are hurting. Love yourself and be kind to you! Find what makes you happy and dont put everything in to another person so that you lose sight of what you need. You need someone t...

Dear bfare, Please let this guy go. HE is looking for a way to walk away. We cant make others love us no matter how much you want it. There is someone out there for you dont give up. Just try to be the best kind of person you can and the right person will come to you. I have granddaughters who have gone thru this so many times and I know how you are hurting. Love yourself and be kind to you! Find what makes you happy and dont put everything in to another person so that you lose sight of what you need. You need someone to love you and this guy isnt it.