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love slipping? sex slipping? is she cheating on me? whats wrong with us?
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my girlfriend and i have been seeing each other for going on 6 months, she has a 7 yr old daughter who seems to like/love me alot and i feel the same about her. i am 22 going on 23 and my girlfriend is 27. i love her alot, a WHOLE lot. i feel that maybe she doesn't feel the same about me. or maybe she is concerned how her daughter attached to me so quickly. i met the daughter about 4 months into us dating. my girlfriend said she had never let any of her previous "boyfriends" or friends meet her daughter. so i do feel great about that. it has been about 3 weeks since her and i have had sex, and before this it was usually every weekend for the past 4 months i know. she said she just isn't in the mood and says that it isn't me, she says i am GREAT. i am also in the army reserves and right before i left for 3 1/2 weeks that night we told each other that we loved each other for the first time. and right after i came back, about a month and half ago we offically started living with each other. in her house, with her daughter, and her roommate who was supposibly suppose to move out and now me. i cook, clean, do yard work, i do about everything she ask me to do. i guess my question is, is it suppose to be this ackward feeling? like she calls it growing pains. we are just trying to adjust to these new enviroments? i also believe once her roommate finally moves out, everything will be fine. plus, my girlfriend and i also work together at the same store. not always around each other but just work in the same store. can you please help, there is nothing in this world i want more than to have these 2 beautiful ladies in my life forever. for the sake and love of 2 people, please help me find out whats going on with us? i want to make sure im not just wasting time, i want to ensure this "relationship" ios going somewhere. please help...!
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I hope I can help you out here because it's obvious you are in love with this woman, and fond of her daughter. The roommate could certainly throw a kink into the comfort level of living together and probably your sex life too! But you have be careful not to sabotage this relationship yourself. Too many questions about why you haven't had sex, and why it feels awkward put even more pressure on her. Also, waiting on her and doing everything she asks seems a bit needy. You have to relax, have fun with her and her daughter,...
Answer Date: 04:46pm 07/20/08
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Dude, first of all, you are too young to be living with a gal and her kid. Move out. Keep dating if you want, but you need your own cave, so to speak. Also, play the field. You are too young to be attached. She's looking for someone stable, not that you aren't, but psychologically your mind is not ready. Good luck
Answer Date: 08:35pm 07/21/08
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Hi, I happen to believe that you are ready for a relationship, and that you do love these "two ladies." You did dive into the situation rather quickly. Your girlfriend may be feeling a bit overwhelmed right now. Being a woman, the only reason I would not want to have sex with my boyfriend is if we did not have an opportunity for private time(too many people in the house), if I was having a physical problem, or if I was depressed and had no drive. Other than that, I can't think of a reason. It doesn't seem like...
Answer Date: 09:34pm 07/23/08
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