You talk to the child welfare services state agency in your area. They will investigate. Or you might want to talk to Sara if you feel qualified to do it.
Unless your evidence is very good, you shouldn't hire a lawyer and ask for custody changes until you are sure of what is going on.

What to do if you believe your child has been abused? So when you send your child back home, how can you know she's safe? While there is no foolproof guarantee, there are things you can do to minimize the risk.

Talk to your kid
Encourage your child to tell you what she does at the home and listen to what she says. You'd be surprised what she'll say during casual conversation...

What to do if you believe your child has been abused? So when you send your child back home, how can you know she's safe? While there is no foolproof guarantee, there are things you can do to minimize the risk.

Talk to your kid
Encourage your child to tell you what she does at the home and listen to what she says. You'd be surprised what she'll say during casual conversation.

What if your child tells you that her father has "touched" her. Now what?

Don't panic
This is simply a parent's worse nightmare, so saying "don't panic" probably seems a little nuts, but try not to. Your child needs you to remain calm. She takes her cues from you. Freak out, so will she. Stay calm and work it out and your child will have the resources to do the same.

Take your child seriously
Your child needs to know you are there for her and you believe her. Listen to what she has to say. Yes, it's possible that she's misinterpreted something, but it's also possible she hasn't.

Assure your child it is not her fault
When an adult takes advantage of a child, it is never the child's fault. However guilty your child feels, assure her, as much as necessary, the adult is at fault and not her. Be sure you continue to make your child feel loved, excepted and safe.

Get help
Child molestation and abuse is a serious issue. It cannot stress enough, if you suspect your child is being molested, get help. A professional can help determine if abuse has occurred and the extent of that abuse. She can also assure that your child gets appropriate medical care as well as recommend counseling services.

If You're Sure Your Child has Been Molested
Please make sure the proof is solid or you could be ruining the reputation, and life, of an innocent volunteer. If you have the proof that your child has been molested by her father, you need to take action.

Take it to the sponsoring organization
Let them know what has occurred and that your doctor or specialist has confirmed it.

Press charges
Please be careful, as its mentioned above. But if you have the proof, this is a criminal matter. Press charges. You'll be helping your child to work through the situation (and perhaps others who haven't reported it) plus protecting other children from abuse. This usually isn't a one time thing for child predators.

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