okay so im dating this guy. we've gone out before but last time he ended up dumping me fore my best friend and instead of telling me himself he had his cousin (my ex) dump me for him. that was a few months ago. so i decided to give him a second chance hoping he'd changed. this previous weekend i went to a youth converence in atlanta georgia and while i was there a met this really nice guy named pat. we flirted A LOT, he rode next to me on the bus, he always hung around me. all that stuff. and he ended up asking me out. i didnt know what to say so i told him i'd get back to him. when i got back home i was feeling so guilty for flirting with pat and i was just about to tell my boyfriend about it when one of my friends told me and got high friday night and cheated on me. now you have to understand im a very forgiving person and im not as mad at him as i thought i would be. and i like him a lot but i also like pat. they're both so amazing but my boyfriend has hurt me a lot and my friends hate him but he has his moments. and then pat his so wonderful and he just helped me think about a lot of stuff, my friends love him but i've known him for 3 days. so what should i do?