We believe and we love.If we dont believe we can not love.So when belief is lost..a relation is upto break up.

yes many times

Some times in life everyone thinks that he/she has been cheated by life,friends,relative n even his partner and this is a part of life and fact of life.

Yes, but they are your partner for a reason. If you love them you will find a way to deal with it. The hurt might not stop, you might feel sick, let down, depressed, belittled..... BUT that is you feeling all the negative things. The wrong person in the relationship to be feeling bad. Talking things out is very difficult but is one of the best ways to get things out in the open and for you to ensure the other person is aware that, yes you feel awful but you are the better person, they have to to change, not u. If they c...

Yes, but they are your partner for a reason. If you love them you will find a way to deal with it. The hurt might not stop, you might feel sick, let down, depressed, belittled..... BUT that is you feeling all the negative things. The wrong person in the relationship to be feeling bad. Talking things out is very difficult but is one of the best ways to get things out in the open and for you to ensure the other person is aware that, yes you feel awful but you are the better person, they have to to change, not u. If they cant change you cant be together bacause they have changed from the person you were once with.
Bit of a drawn out answer but I have been at the brunt of a a few friends crying about this type of situation aswell as experiencing it myself.
You have got to think that if you have a view about cheating to this extent, that there is too much cheating out there and people need to value and respect eachother more!!!!!

everyone was somehow hurt in a relationship, but only few know that they were cheated....

everyone was somehow hurt in a relationship, but only few know that they were cheated.ok then. I suppose I have never been cheated. Suppose, because the fact that I don't know about it doesn't mean it is truth.
Hurt- yes. It's impossible to never get hurt in a relationship (if people love each other, if the're not indifferent). Words can hurt when you argue with sb- its hard to conrol emotions. Stupid joke also can hurt. Repelling sb because of bad mood, without any reason or just because you feel to good and get bored with it- hurts. Fear of being loved, fear of loving, jealousy- hurts. I experienced it, as almost everyone, I suppose.

yes and yea it hurts in the begining but at the end youll realise that you dont need him.If a guy cheats on you just move on and make him jelous

I have a different answer.

I have cheated on someone before. Yes i know it was a terrible thing to do. yes i regret it, and live with it every day of my life. I always will, because i will never forgive myself.

But cheating on someone will not only hurt the person they are cheating on...

I have a different answer.

I have cheated on someone before. Yes i know it was a terrible thing to do. yes i regret it, and live with it every day of my life. I always will, because i will never forgive myself.

But cheating on someone will not only hurt the person they are cheating on, but themselves aswell (given that they have feelings). To cheat on someone is the lowest thing to do. But it is not always to make the cheater feel good, but sometimes it is done to make the person u r with that is making u cheat on ur partner happy. Sometimes, u cheat on someone to make both people happy.... Not because u are a selfish pig (I am a selfish pig, in my eyes)

I for example cheated on my partner, not formyself, but because both girls had needed me... When they found out, they were hurt, and i can never live with that. I simply wanted to get them on their feet till they got sick of me, because all of my partners do, and quickly, after they are able to face life again.

Again, what i did was the worst thing a person could do. Even with my intentions i should have found another way to do it. But didnt. But it shows that if the person who cheated on u is even slightly decent in any way, it will hurt them to. Most likely not as much, but they will regret it aswell.

yes ,i have .....it's very hard to forget it but get on n on is d only thing u can do in d world today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

everyone at some stage in their life gets hurt by their partner, even worse if they have been cheating, but what can you do? the hurt seems to consume you deeply and you feel miserable as if there is something that you have done wrong, it takes ages to get on with your life, you doubt yourself and you are afraid of being hurt again and don't want to trust in anyone, if you have been hurt by your partner or he/she has cheated, this is my advise to you. you haven't done anything wrong, you are not at fault here, chin up, ...

everyone at some stage in their life gets hurt by their partner, even worse if they have been cheating, but what can you do? the hurt seems to consume you deeply and you feel miserable as if there is something that you have done wrong, it takes ages to get on with your life, you doubt yourself and you are afraid of being hurt again and don't want to trust in anyone, if you have been hurt by your partner or he/she has cheated, this is my advise to you. you haven't done anything wrong, you are not at fault here, chin up, face the world straight on and move on there is someone out there who is perfect for you, just be patient,of course you will be more guarded with your feelings, but you will know when the time is right for you, remember you are special and the other person that hurt you or cheated on you isn't worth worrying about,live life and move on and be happy you are special you are not a loser the other person was the loser, you are a winner

Yes, I have but I never hopeless in love. I know it so hurt when they cheated with us. I have some exp with it. My gf cheated on me. I know she cheated on me too. but I not hopless I try still continue and show her I am the man really love. I spent my words, my time, my activity to show her I love her untill she think I good and really love and we come back to truth love.

Believe on your love, How can you do for your love. cheated love can becom...

Yes, I have but I never hopeless in love. I know it so hurt when they cheated with us. I have some exp with it. My gf cheated on me. I know she cheated on me too. but I not hopless I try still continue and show her I am the man really love. I spent my words, my time, my activity to show her I love her untill she think I good and really love and we come back to truth love.

Believe on your love, How can you do for your love. cheated love can become truth love,( truth love also become cheated love too it depend on your selve)

My first often accused me of being promiscuous. Or joked about it.

And 2 months down the line, I caught my ex with another guy.

Hm....

My first often accused me of being promiscuous. Or joked about it.

And 2 months down the line, I caught my ex with another guy.

Hm.* 22 percent of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives.
* 14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their married lives.
* Younger people are more likely candidates; in fact, younger women are as likely as younger men to be unfaithful.
* 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men did not know of their spouses' extramarital activity.
* 5 percent of married men and 3 percent of married women reported having sex with someone other than their spouse in the year1997.
* 22 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted to having sexual relations outside their marriage sometime in their past.
* 90 percent of Americans believe adultery is morally wrong.
* 50 percent of Americans say President Clinton's adultery makes his moral standard "about the same as the average married man,'' according to a Time-CNN poll.
* 61 percent of Americans thought adultery should not be a crime in the United states; 35 percent thought it should; 4 percent had no opinion.
* 17 percent of divorces in the United States are caused by infidelity.
* Source: Associated Press
* Up to 37% of men and 22% of women admit to having affairs. Researchers think the vast majority of the millions of people who visit chat rooms, have multiple "special friends”. Dr. Bob Lanier, askbob.com
* Recent studies reveal that 45-55% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital sex at some time or another during their relationship (Atwood & Schwartz, 2002 - Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy)
* Only 46% of men believe that online affairs are adultery. DivorceMag
* 80% think it's Ok to talk with a stranger identified as the opposite sex. 75% thinks it's ok to visit an adult site.
* About 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in some marriage "Monogamy Myth", Therapist Peggy Vaugn