We believe and we love.If we dont believe we can not love.So when belief is lost..a relation is upto break up.

Yes, I have but I never hopeless in love. I know it so hurt when they cheated with us. I have some exp with it. My gf cheated on me. I know she cheated on me too. but I not hopless I try still continue and show her I am the man really love. I spent my words, my time, my activity to show her I love her untill she think I good and really love and we come back to truth love.

Believe on your love, How can you do for your love. cheated love can becom...

Yes, I have but I never hopeless in love. I know it so hurt when they cheated with us. I have some exp with it. My gf cheated on me. I know she cheated on me too. but I not hopless I try still continue and show her I am the man really love. I spent my words, my time, my activity to show her I love her untill she think I good and really love and we come back to truth love.

Believe on your love, How can you do for your love. cheated love can become truth love,( truth love also become cheated love too it depend on your selve)

Yes, my FIRST husband of two and a half years has been cheating on me on and off throughout our whole entire marriage. It hurts a lot because I was totally blindsided by it and I trusted him so much. What hurts even more is that it wasn't just sex. He actually dated some of the girls and would take off his wedding ring. That hurt a lot because I never took my ring off until I found out about what was going on. He even slept with some of them by doing things that I told him I had fantasized about. It feels like there is ...

Yes, my FIRST husband of two and a half years has been cheating on me on and off throughout our whole entire marriage. It hurts a lot because I was totally blindsided by it and I trusted him so much. What hurts even more is that it wasn't just sex. He actually dated some of the girls and would take off his wedding ring. That hurt a lot because I never took my ring off until I found out about what was going on. He even slept with some of them by doing things that I told him I had fantasized about. It feels like there is nothing special that he saved for me. After all this I still love him and can not bear the thought of losing him even though in a way I already have lost him. Back then, we were trying to resolve it but sometimes in back of my mind there were TRUST ISSUES. I couldn't sleep through whole night. When I woke up ALL THOSE BAD THOUGHTS, MEMORIES and crashing back in. The HURT just repeated all over again. Later on for about 6 months, I filed for a divorce. My wounds just couldn't healed from this relationship.

Then a year later, I met my SECOND husband and we were married 6 months later and still married to him with NO TRUST ISSUES.A broken heart causes pain

The first research was done with people that needed to play computer games. The game was focused on rejecting the people at a certain point. The people don't know what is going on, but the reactions on the rejection at a certain moment are registered by the use of scans.
On a brain scan you can clearly see that the part of the brain that is activated when you are dealing with physical pain, also responds when a person deals with social seclusion. However, that does not mean that a broken arm gives the same pain as a broken heart.
With this research, scientists want to show how important it is that people feel socially accepted. As well, based on this research new medicine can be developed that cure cases of extreme fear in social life or depression. Research has shown before that when there is pain, something "is not right".
You can compare it with sort of a basic signal that goes of in the brain's cerebral cortex. As well, the crying of a child gives this reaction in the brain of the mother. However, this is the first time that it is for sure that the same signal is given after rejection.
Divorce can lead literally lead to a broken heart

The second research involved 10,000 men and women that were researched over a period of ten years. The conclusion is that 11.6 percent of the divorced women have heart problems. For remarried women the number is 10.9 percent. For women that stay with their men their whole lives, this percentage was 8.7 percent.
At the age of 60, 33 percent of the divorced women had heart problems, against 22 percent of the married women. According to scientists, this is the result of emotional damage that comes from a divorce, and this has, especially for women, physical consequences.
Why divorced men get less health problems, is unclear. A theory is that for women a harmonious family life is more important than for men.
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Of Course, I agree with what some people have already said, which is, I think an Oscar Wilde expression, Just, I don't remember it word for word.

If Two people love eachother, You're going to hurt eachother.
When You're together, and when You break apart.

As for the cheating thing, that usually happens because a party doesn't kn...

Of Course, I agree with what some people have already said, which is, I think an Oscar Wilde expression, Just, I don't remember it word for word.

If Two people love eachother, You're going to hurt eachother.
When You're together, and when You break apart.

As for the cheating thing, that usually happens because a party doesn't know what they want.
I would say, that it isn't cheating, if they only go with one other person, because it's entirely possible that that person, that someone is going with, is a much more suitable person, and they were just too scared to say, "Hey, I think I'm going to leave You now.".

No-one should ever take it personally, if someone leaves them.
They just found someone who they feel is more compatible.

Yeah. It may have been due to my negligence. So I've learned from then on never to take my loved ones for granted and cherish and appreciate all the little things they do for me.

Yes, and the way I see it, you only have 2 options...

1) You can wallow in self pity, crawl into a hole and hibernate...

OR..

2) You can pull yourself up and learn the lessons from the bad experience,...

Yes, and the way I see it, you only have 2 options...

1) You can wallow in self pity, crawl into a hole and hibernate...

OR..

2) You can pull yourself up and learn the lessons from the bad experience, as not to have history repeat itself in the future.

It is the negative/bad experiences in our lives that show us our inner strength.

Yes and Yes, hurt mentally not physically. Cheated on Yes. Im a big believer in the fact that "the one that points the finger is usually they themselves the guilty one" and more times than not its true. Easier to blame someone else than look at themselves at being wrong........

Not yet and it won't happen, so you can count me out when calculating the percentage :D

I'm a male married for 20 year and over that time I have made mistakes I can't escape, the person with the chip on thier shoulders has to realize that the one they love is not to blame for thier misfortune whatever that my be. Kgingell's answer to you works for me. Good luck

Once in my life, I dated a man who cheated on me, and it hurt like hell. We had been together for three years, and I trusted him implicitly! I thought everything was great - we had great sex, we had a lot of fun together, we could talk about everything - he liked my family - I liked his! Then one day, I found a birthday card in his jacket pocket, from the other woman! She thanked him for the afternoon delight they had, on the afternoon of his birthday - the best sex they'd ever had and was looking forward to Friday at h...

Once in my life, I dated a man who cheated on me, and it hurt like hell. We had been together for three years, and I trusted him implicitly! I thought everything was great - we had great sex, we had a lot of fun together, we could talk about everything - he liked my family - I liked his! Then one day, I found a birthday card in his jacket pocket, from the other woman! She thanked him for the afternoon delight they had, on the afternoon of his birthday - the best sex they'd ever had and was looking forward to Friday at her place! I was in shock! I had a birthday party for him on the same day he had been with her, and he made love to me that night! I felt like I had been kicked in the gut, and I couldn't stop crying as I packed up all his belongings, put them outside the front door, then called a locksmith! When he got home that evening, he got kicked in the gut, trying to unlock the door, then loading his stuff into his car! He was the one crying then! I never forgave him, and I never will! It took awhile, but I did recover, and I did get on with my life! All men are not like him! Our whole relationship became one big lie to me, and now it's like it never existed. You will be fine - the creep that cheated on you never will be! Stay strong, and never blame yourself!

i think its common..in someway or the other we all have been hurt or have hurt our partners.
its becoz we are the closest to our partenrs so the level of senstivity in the relations is much higher ...
its common...
but how we deal with it is most imp , we are with our respectiv partenrs for a reason for a strong bond we share with them ..such issues shud be well...

i think its common..in someway or the other we all have been hurt or have hurt our partners.
its becoz we are the closest to our partenrs so the level of senstivity in the relations is much higher ...
its common...
but how we deal with it is most imp , we are with our respectiv partenrs for a reason for a strong bond we share with them ..such issues shud be well understud ..
ppl seriously in luv wud never purposly hurt their partenr so i guess both are victims of the situation , one mite feel misrbl being hurt n the other is misrble hurting the luvd one...