1. Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs.
2. If she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes. She'll smile and laugh at your comments and jokes.
3. She may not be able to look your straight in the eyes and she might gi...
1. Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs.
2. If she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes. She'll smile and laugh at your comments and jokes.
3. She may not be able to look your straight in the eyes and she might giggle a lot.
4. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. They might tap your shoulder while talking to you, gently push you or burst out laughing when you tell a joke.
5. She most likely will never dream off while you talk to her, though if she does, it's likely because what you're talking about doesn't interest her.
6. Notice if she touches you more often than what friends do (she's constantly trying to touch your hand or something). If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track.
7. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at a normally boring or stupid joke. Though, don't be dumb and use bad jokes as a test or you'll just look like a comedic loser.
8. Notice how she looks at you - she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you - which means that you should probably make the first move. If she holds the stare, then she is confident and she may make the first move.
* If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction.
9. Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends staring back at you this means that she is telling her friends about you and that she likes you or she's telling them that you are freaking her out. If her friends are smiling at you then that means she is telling them that she likes you (most of the time). An added smile is generally a good sign.
* If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends can either be assuming things or be idiots and do this. It will not be offensive to her if you hear this and question her about it. She may deny her feelings but they may reappear later when she gains the confidence to tell you.
10. Smile at her. Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away say goodbye to her. She is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.
11. Watch for her being extremely mean or extremely nice to you for no reason. If she is extremely mean then she wants you to go away, but if she is playfully mean to you then she may like you.
12. If you do like her, DO NOT FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hug you, she may jump to conclusions easily and assume she doesn't mean anything to you.
13. If you do 'get the girl', actually pay attention to her! Don't act too differently if you're with your friends when she's around. She may think that you're not comfortable with going out with her.
14. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears your name.
15. If the girl seems to be nicer toward you than toward all the rest of her guy friends -- then, yeah, she has the potential for interest in you.
16. If she constantly asks about your status with girls and asks your preference in types of girls, then she is likely fishing to see if she might meet your interests.
17. If she says, "I know someone who likes you!" and she smiles and giggles, then it may be her. However do not jump to conclusions, she may be trying to hook you up with one of her friends.
18. Get to know her, tell her you like her and just see what she says. But if she does not like you, NO means NO! If she tries to be your friend, likely that means you should be content with that because you won't be going farther at this point.
19. When a dance is close by, if she asks you something like "Have you been asked out to the dance yet?" She's implying that she wants you to ask her out to the dance. Also, if she mentions she doesn't have a date, and expresses she would like to go, she is dropping you a hint.
20. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation.
21. If she mimics your movements, then this is a genuine sign that she is interested in you. Though, be careful to make sure she is playfully making fun of you and not actually trying to make you look stupid.
22. If she turns BRIGHT red when you're near her or when you talk to her, she likes you.
23. A rare occurrence, but still a possibility, is that she may bluntly state she is interested in you.
24. If she calls you to just talk with her, then she likely has a crush on you.
25. If she looks for an excuse to talk to you more often than she used to, she might like you.
26. If she pauses when you walk by her, there's a good chance she has an interest in you.
27. If you have a class with her, leave something on her desk like a book and then about 15 minutes later if she hasn't noticed yet, call her name (no more than three times if she didn't notice the first time.) If she doesn't respond or ignores you, this could be a sign. IF she responds, just ask her for the book.
28. Compliment her. Girls love when guys sincerely compliment them. Remember, don't shower them with compliments, although they may like it, they may see you as having ulterior motives.
29. Defend her interests. If she's playing a sport and one of your friends makes a crack about it, stick up for the sport (she'll see it as you sticking up for her).
30. Just ask her out! Some girls are too shy to do it, or if they've been turned down a lot, are afraid of rejection and won't ask. Or they're afraid you won't like it if they take the initiative. If you like her, ask her. If she says no, then she's probably playing it cool and If she says yes, then you're in the clear!
31. Myspace and Facebook are great tools for casually building a relationship with her. Leave a comment on her page about something the two of you did together that day. Use smiley faces too. A girl feels special when you put them because she interprets it as you actually smiling.
32. Take a risk. Get off-campus lunch? Ask her on a friendly group date. It won't hurt. Get to know her better. A girl can be crazy and hyper but when you really get to know her she's probably nice, sweet, kind and caring. What do you have to lose?
33. Ask her out - you obviously like her so just do it! If you want to avoid embarrassment don't make it public, if she says no, ask her not to tell anyone, if she does anyway, she wasn't right for you.But if she flirts with you after a few days when she says no then ask her out again a few months later when your positively sure she's into you!!
