I don't think it's a choice between sex and chocolate. I think it's a difference in the sex drives of men and women. Most people like chocolate - that's a given! Most women like sex as much as men do - also a given! But most women like to be romanced before sex - without romance they are often not interested as often as men are. Chocolate is a comfort food that brings pleasure to the palates of all who like it. I think what you see on T.V. are the women who have no romance in their lives and are turned off my the mechan...

I don't think it's a choice between sex and chocolate. I think it's a difference in the sex drives of men and women. Most people like chocolate - that's a given! Most women like sex as much as men do - also a given! But most women like to be romanced before sex - without romance they are often not interested as often as men are. Chocolate is a comfort food that brings pleasure to the palates of all who like it. I think what you see on T.V. are the women who have no romance in their lives and are turned off my the mechanical approach their mates have towards the sex act. Women, who have a stronger sex drive than their husbands do, and seem to be the ones who initiate it most of the time, perhaps don't require the romantic build-up that other women do! Nothing wrong with that! If it ain't broke, don't fix it! But do you ever wish your husband would initiate it more often?

No but I do love chocolate

Okay, all you men...listen up! The whole "women are less sexual than men" thing is a myth based on an unscientific survey done by Ann Landers. Approximately 90,000 of her readers responded in which 72% of the women that responded said that they would prefer to cuddle rather than have sex. It's important to note that the survey was conducted among her readers only! It was not distributed among a variety of people and there were virtually no scientific controls in place to insure accurate results. This survey ha...

Okay, all you men...listen up! The whole "women are less sexual than men" thing is a myth based on an unscientific survey done by Ann Landers. Approximately 90,000 of her readers responded in which 72% of the women that responded said that they would prefer to cuddle rather than have sex. It's important to note that the survey was conducted among her readers only! It was not distributed among a variety of people and there were virtually no scientific controls in place to insure accurate results. This survey has been used ever since to pigeonhole women into the non-sexual category and give men an excuse for philandering based on the misguided idea that men want and enjoy sex more than women. I know that the original question was "chocolate or sex" but I am increasingly amazed at how society continues to perpetuate the myth that men are biologically more attuned to sex than women. It just flat out isn't true! Please don't get me wrong, men are wonderful creatures. HOWEVER, male entitled in terms of sexual satisfaction is out of control! The media must stop perpetuating the idea that men deserve more sex, like sex more and are therefore entitled to multiple partners because of the "desire disparity" between men and women! So, back to the original question: chocolate or sex? Make mine sex smothered in chocolate. (Incidentally, sex is a great remedy for a headache.)

nope ! not true ...

bt the kind f sex women want is nt jus plain simple ""SEX""
its gotta do with a lot f luv filled gestures n emotions ..

if thats missin then chocolate is better !...

nope ! not true ...

bt the kind f sex women want is nt jus plain simple ""SEX""
its gotta do with a lot f luv filled gestures n emotions ..

if thats missin then chocolate is better !

Women enjoy sex as much (if not more) than men. Men are more driven to it. Ask yourself the question "a single man and a single woman go out seperately for a night out and both are determined to have sex. Who is more likely to succeed?" Hmmm?

Women in the luteal phase are relatively hypoglycaemic compared to the follicular phase and therefore are prone to sugary foodstuffs. Hence the likin...

Women enjoy sex as much (if not more) than men. Men are more driven to it. Ask yourself the question "a single man and a single woman go out seperately for a night out and both are determined to have sex. Who is more likely to succeed?" Hmmm?

Women in the luteal phase are relatively hypoglycaemic compared to the follicular phase and therefore are prone to sugary foodstuffs. Hence the liking for chocolate. It's not actually a myth. Men buy women boxes of choccies don't they? You virtually never see the reverse except at Easter!

We all know that women love chocolate and unless the men don't know what they are doing, most women also love sex . So the best solution for men is to learn to work chocolate into your 4-play then the women will want it just as much as you do!!!!!!!!!

I like chocolate, but I would much rather have sex, especially if it is with someone I want to be with and it is good. I think people get confused on the definition of good sex; I like mine to be varied and sometimes long lasting, sometimes with chocolate....yes, I know, I can't have both according to the question! I pick sex only if I get to pick the person too :-)

The saying may go, "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach", but what about women? It is a long standing tradition to present a woman with a box of chocolate as a romantic gesture. Is it simply because women love chocolate or does the root of this tradition go deeper? Curiosity led me to do some research on the subject and here is what I found.

First of all I wanted to know if chocolate was truly an aphrodisiac. An ap...

The saying may go, "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach", but what about women? It is a long standing tradition to present a woman with a box of chocolate as a romantic gesture. Is it simply because women love chocolate or does the root of this tradition go deeper? Curiosity led me to do some research on the subject and here is what I found.

First of all I wanted to know if chocolate was truly an aphrodisiac. An aphrodisiac is reputed to "put you in the mood for love" and the name comes from the Greek goddess of love Aphrodite. It is possible that the aphrodisiacal qualities come from our own mindset and expectations. First of all, we get a certain amount of pleasure from consuming chocolate. For one, the melting point of chocolate is slightly below human body temperature so it melts in your mouth. That in itself is a stimulating experience but what about the substances found in chocolate? And what are the roots of chocolate as an aphrodisiac in history? I found a lot of useful information but as you would expect, I found conflicting arguments on whether or not it is an aphrodisiac, so I decided to come to my own conclusion and I urge you to do the same.

One report said that the Aztecs considered all chocolate an aphrodisiac. Because of this, all foods made with chocolate were strictly forbidden to women. However, another report stated that the Aztecs and Mayans were the first to recognize the potency of this food, celebrating the harvest with festivals of wild orgies. I guess both could be true (and may be) but it seems to me that if they were having wild orgies, they would want the women to eat it. I don't know, that's just my opinion, but in either case, the Aztecs apparently considered it an aphrodisiac.

There are people throughout history who also believed in the stimulating qualities of chocolate. In 1624 Johan Franciscus Rauch, a professor in Vienna, condemned chocolate as an inflamer of passions and urged monks not to drink it as he wanted to ban it in the monasteries. It is said that Madame du Barry, courtesan and mistress of Louis XV, always served her lovers a cup of chocolat before they were let in to her bedroom, and that the great lover and alchemist Casanova, who drank his cioccolata at Cafe Florian in Venice, considered chocolate more stimulating than champagne and called it the "elixir of love". Montezuma supposedly drank a cup of chocolate before entering his harem.

Ok, I am convinced that people in history have found chocolate to be an aphrodisiac, but why? Chocolate contains phenylethylamine, a naturally occurring amino-acid which some consider to have aphrodisiacal effects and is even said to be able to "cure" hangovers. Phenylethylamine is a substance which is released naturally in the human body when you're in love. Other stimulants present in chocolate are dopamine and serotonin, which alleviate pain and encourage a good mood. Serotonin produces feelings of pleasure in a similar way to sunlight. Chocolate also contains theobromine, a chemical stimulant frequently confused with caffeine, but has very different effects on the human body. It is a mild, lasting stimulant with a mood improving effect. Its presence is one of the causes for chocolate's mood-elevating effects. (Note - In chocolate, theobromine exists in doses that are safe for humans to consume in large quantities, but can be lethal for animals such as dogs and horses, as they metabolize theobromine more slowly.)

Wow, no wonder I love it so much! So does my wife and that is why we always have lots of choclate in our freeze all the time.What more does a person need than a mood elevating, stimulating, pleasurable, not to mention, great tasting, experience? I must mention, however, that some sources state that there is no evidence of chocolate having a true aphrodisiac effect. My opinion, who cares? With all that happening, if it doesn't put you in the mood, it won't take much encouragement to get you there. Excuse me, I seem to be craving some chocolate..then sex and then relaxation.

of course they do, i mean sometimes it hurts them to have an orgasm, so yeah of course they like chocolate a-lot more.

if its more oral then i love it more than choclate!

Maybe I need to up my skills, cuz I want sex MUCH more than my wife, and I think she would prefer chocolate. I married my wife with no experience, and she had had several relationships at that level before me. I'm afraid I'll never catch up with her. Also, sex means a lot more to me than just getting off. It is the most solid expression of the emotions you feel for the other person, and I am welling over with those emotions. So, chocolate or sex is up in the air for me, but the men wanting more than the women is a FACT ...

Maybe I need to up my skills, cuz I want sex MUCH more than my wife, and I think she would prefer chocolate. I married my wife with no experience, and she had had several relationships at that level before me. I'm afraid I'll never catch up with her. Also, sex means a lot more to me than just getting off. It is the most solid expression of the emotions you feel for the other person, and I am welling over with those emotions. So, chocolate or sex is up in the air for me, but the men wanting more than the women is a FACT in my relationship.