you just know, its as simple as that.

Prior to my marriage 23 years ago, I've seen men who were so hot and so fine that I've spent the entire day thinking about them and having butterflies without so much as a conversation with them. Does that mean I'm in love with them? Of course not.

I wish we could take the "in" out of "in love" because it really throws most for a loop. When someone proposes an activity which ...

Prior to my marriage 23 years ago, I've seen men who were so hot and so fine that I've spent the entire day thinking about them and having butterflies without so much as a conversation with them. Does that mean I'm in love with them? Of course not.

I wish we could take the "in" out of "in love" because it really throws most for a loop. When someone proposes an activity which you think you might eagerly enjoy, you say "I'm in! Let's do it"

To me that is what being in love is. It's not necessarily a "feeling" but it is an active decision to be "in" a loving bond with that person. You choose who to bond with based on attraction level, intellectual level, compatibility level and other parameters but to say that everyone will experience some cataclysmic sensation based on a new love prospect is not realistic. Love is not a drug. It is a hormonal cocktail that many of us have no clue what to do with. The hormonal cocktail can't happen without face to face stimulation and I'm not just talking about sexual/physical but sharing the same environment. Many do not experience this and yet they have all the makings of a great love together.

I think many of us are in love with the idea of being in love. That it's supposed to be some earth shattering, spirit evolving thing that makes us different than who we are which is usually (miserable without it) even though it may not actually exist.

Then I think we wonder why we feel so dissillusioned and betrayed. Love never betrayed us...we betrayed the truth of it.

I believe that love is an action, not a reaction. I think that you knowingly choose those you love based on all the criteria that deems them worthy of everything you have to offer another and it that the "original bliss" is merely meant to cement that bonding process.

Love is a person you choose to fit into your life and likewise for them. The emotions you experience based on your time with them is more about you than it is the other. Some people romanticize a peanut butter sandwich and that is part of how their personality works. Others are more logical in their approach and base their experiences on actual facts without all the warm fuzzies. It does not make them any less "in love" than someone who can't control their urge to be with their signifant other or girl/boy friend

There are many forms of love. If it feels like love for you and it is the kind of love you want...guess what? You're in.

This was just my 2 cents

Well scientifically it is a mixture of chemicals in your brain, that gives you to obtain a great interest in that person, otherwise:

To awnser this question to a man: Will you still be with her after you been in bed with her

To awnser this to a woman: is he the one who you will spend the rest of y...

Well scientifically it is a mixture of chemicals in your brain, that gives you to obtain a great interest in that person, otherwise:

To awnser this question to a man: Will you still be with her after you been in bed with her

To awnser this to a woman: is he the one who you will spend the rest of your life with, the one who will raise your child, the one you would risk your life for.

Unfortunately awnser like this will not be a suitable awnser. Get down on your knees and speak to the lord, for the lord knows.

I think it is when you know the worst possible things about that person and you still accept them for who they are.

love is when you take away the feeling, passion and the romance in a relationship and you find that you still care for that person x

Your in love when all you want to do is be with that person. Do things for them and think about them all the time. Like when you meet your soul mate: I was working once and all of a sudden I felt a funny feeling inside me, like someone was looking at me. I looked up and there was this young man, just staring at me. When I looked into his eyes I just knew he was my soul mate..that was the upside...the downside...he is half my age....so we never got together...But I knew inside me that he was my soul mate. Good luck, Dais...

Your in love when all you want to do is be with that person. Do things for them and think about them all the time. Like when you meet your soul mate: I was working once and all of a sudden I felt a funny feeling inside me, like someone was looking at me. I looked up and there was this young man, just staring at me. When I looked into his eyes I just knew he was my soul mate..that was the upside...the downside...he is half my age....so we never got together...But I knew inside me that he was my soul mate. Good luck, Daisy

You will know that you are in love when you feel that you can not be without this person. You will feel an ache in your heart when you are apart. You will want to spend the rest of your life with this person. True love is a gift and should always be cherished.

I believe love is when you know that no matter how bad the circumstances might be, or might get, it won't change the way you feel about the person. I think that it's when even after all the butterflies &nd the 'omg I want to spend the rest of my life with him' feelings go away, you know you can still make it. Because the little 'ol fights shouldn't matter, love shouldn't have a definition. It should be an unexplainable security you feel when that perosn holds you. I've come to realize people treat love like a sickne...

I believe love is when you know that no matter how bad the circumstances might be, or might get, it won't change the way you feel about the person. I think that it's when even after all the butterflies &nd the 'omg I want to spend the rest of my life with him' feelings go away, you know you can still make it. Because the little 'ol fights shouldn't matter, love shouldn't have a definition. It should be an unexplainable security you feel when that perosn holds you. I've come to realize people treat love like a sickness, &nd it becomes an obsession,because they want it so bad, but it doesn't happen in a snap like people think, &nd the butterflies do go away.love is hard, &nd has to be worked at &nd worked for. LOVE HAS TO GROW,&ND YOU HAVE TO SACRIFICE!