Very simply:

Approach her and tell her your side of the story. Make it short and sweet.

Tell her that you initially said to one of your friends that you thought she was cute and tell her that you don't know how this whole thing snowballe...

Very simply:

Approach her and tell her your side of the story. Make it short and sweet.

Tell her that you initially said to one of your friends that you thought she was cute and tell her that you don't know how this whole thing snowballed, and got this way.

Tell her the truth, that you just wanted to talk to her and be her friend, and apologize for the screw up, and leave it at that.

Know, she will know the hard, clean facts. She can make her own decision as to whether or not she wants to be friendly with you or not. You will get the truth into the open, and there will be no more talking behind your back.

You will also feel better for getting this off of your chest.

Best of luck to you.

They say these are the best years of your life but let me tell you, I wouldn't go back to those years if you paid me. It's not easy and you deserve lots and heaps of credit for making the best of what you've been handed so far. In addition, you're actually asking for advice, which is a wonderful indication that you're open to outside opinion and perspectives! Keep that and you'll go far!

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They say these are the best years of your life but let me tell you, I wouldn't go back to those years if you paid me. It's not easy and you deserve lots and heaps of credit for making the best of what you've been handed so far. In addition, you're actually asking for advice, which is a wonderful indication that you're open to outside opinion and perspectives! Keep that and you'll go far!

Now, on to the answer. The answer is: just talk to her. It's a nerve-wracking thing to contemplate, I know. The fear of rejection is probably only slightly more acute than the fear of embarassment. You will, after all, have to see all these people for the entire next year, and maybe you're thinking the reminder of failures will be unbearable... It's not as bad as all that. Try to think of what embarassing things you have seen other people say and do. Do you judge them or dwell on it, or think of it every time you see them? Or are you much more interested in what's going on in your own life? Because that's probably how they see you, too.

So take a deep breath, and temporarily ditch any friends you think might embarass you, at least for the moments during your planned conversation. (If they really are your friends, they'll prefer to see you happy, than embarassed and miserable. If they'd really rather see you suffer, maybe they're not such good friends after all.) When you see her, ask her if you can talk to her for a minute. Her answer will give you a sort of mini "heads up" on how she might react to the possibility of getting to know you better.

Assuming she agrees, walk outside your circles of friends, or ask her when she can talk, or ask for her number. Or launch right into what you want to say.

Maybe you can tell her you're sorry about what happened last year, but that you would like to get to know her better this year. Are there any football games, or dances you can ask her out to? She liked you last year, but got just as embarassed as you did, due to circumstances beyond either of your controls. That doesn't have to stop either of you.

Above all... relaaaaaax. It will all turn out ok! Take a few deep breaths and get some perspective. What's important in your life? What negative factors are you in control of? What positive factors do you control? Forget about the ones you can't control, and assume responsibility for the ones you CAN control but prefer not to because it's "easier." Assess your surroundings and the environment you choose to put yourself in, and weight whether its good for you. Make sure your mind's in a good place (emotionally, spiritually, philosophically), before you go inviting another person in to share your reality with you.

Ok, She probably hasn't talked to you because her friends are giving her a hard time. If you still like her you need to talk to her. Preferably without friends. Watch for a good time and don't back out, Just go up to her and say hey, hows it going? you can tell by her answer if she is intrested. If she ignores u all is lost. If she responds thats good. She will ask you the same most likely so answer her. make it short though. Then say Hey all that stuff said last year wasn't true. Dont go into all the things said just l...

Ok, She probably hasn't talked to you because her friends are giving her a hard time. If you still like her you need to talk to her. Preferably without friends. Watch for a good time and don't back out, Just go up to her and say hey, hows it going? you can tell by her answer if she is intrested. If she ignores u all is lost. If she responds thats good. She will ask you the same most likely so answer her. make it short though. Then say Hey all that stuff said last year wasn't true. Dont go into all the things said just leave it at that. Then say if you would like to go hang out sometime that would be cool. She'll probably say something shot like OK. Leave the conversation there and go on about your day. You don't want to do to much at once. Then when the time is right and you will know when it is ask her out to do something. Girls love attention, as I well know. High school was hard for me too. I was shy till I got to know someone. Us females r very comlicated. Good luck and if it doesn't work out so what. There will be someone else.

I remember counseling you before about this, and I see you didn't take my advice! That's okay, it's a new year. So, here it goes again....The ball is in your court. She is way too shy to approach you. Her friends may be saying negative things about you, but so what. If she's the kind of person that lets her friends decide who she socializes with, then you're better off without her. Stop being so obsessed with her maybe thinking you're weird. If you ask her out, you will talk and get to know each other, and she will real...

I remember counseling you before about this, and I see you didn't take my advice! That's okay, it's a new year. So, here it goes again....The ball is in your court. She is way too shy to approach you. Her friends may be saying negative things about you, but so what. If she's the kind of person that lets her friends decide who she socializes with, then you're better off without her. Stop being so obsessed with her maybe thinking you're weird. If you ask her out, you will talk and get to know each other, and she will realize that you are the nice kid you say you are. It's okay to be nervous. But, if you really want something or someone, you have to go get it!! No more of this goofy stuff! Walk up to the girl, in the midst of her friends, and tell her you would like to talk to her privately. Do not mention any of the mumbo jumbo others have told her. Just tell her you want to get to know her better, and would she like to get together. If she says "no," then she must have her reasons, and there's nothing you can do about that. You move on, and look for another girl you might like to get to know. If she's says, "yes," then bravo!!! No more procrastinating and "what if" thinking. Girls like confidence. Very important!! If you don't have it, "fake it, till ya make it!!"

Personally I think that you should give up on this girl. She can't make her mind up and she won't be able to give you the stable relationship you are seeking. But, I know how you feel. You can't stop thinking about her and you don't want to give her up. Thats the hardest part with girls, they make you want them even though they make you furious. Well, what you should do is start talking to her more and make yourself the guy who stands out in her life. Be with her a lot (not too much) and be confident around her. Girls l...

Personally I think that you should give up on this girl. She can't make her mind up and she won't be able to give you the stable relationship you are seeking. But, I know how you feel. You can't stop thinking about her and you don't want to give her up. Thats the hardest part with girls, they make you want them even though they make you furious. Well, what you should do is start talking to her more and make yourself the guy who stands out in her life. Be with her a lot (not too much) and be confident around her. Girls love conidence, i've been told that many times and its true. But it seems you have cofidence. Also ask her out sometime. Make the date special. Find out what she likes to do by asking her friends and then make the date special. If she is one of those girls who can't decide on a guy, show her you are the best choice for her. She'll like it. Don't be cocky, that scares them rather than impresses them. Also don't do anything really lovey dubby, that crap. That will also turn off a girl. Hope this works out and have a good new year. Don't give up on this girl but also, be warned for an upset that may occur

YOU DESERVE MORE AND BETTER THAN THAT! Don't try so hard and take everything to heart and you will be better off for it. If she doesn't seize this chance, her loss. You will find someone who will be good to you. There's a time and a place for everything and you are letting her win when you show how much it affects you. The less you pay attention, the sooner she'll get bored with giving you a hard time and move on.

Hey you! read this now. You might think that by not talking her, you're handling what you have going on right now well. But you're not.
Here's what you need to do. You need to talk to her. DO NOT mention anything about being a stalker. You said you're a funny kid and heck I believe you. So go up to her and start talking about a project or something you have to do currently for one of your classes. If you're friendly like such, you'll prove to her that you're not a stalker of any kind and probably take the...

Hey you! read this now. You might think that by not talking her, you're handling what you have going on right now well. But you're not.
Here's what you need to do. You need to talk to her. DO NOT mention anything about being a stalker. You said you're a funny kid and heck I believe you. So go up to her and start talking about a project or something you have to do currently for one of your classes. If you're friendly like such, you'll prove to her that you're not a stalker of any kind and probably take the whole thing off both of your shoulders. Keep me updated on how you do.