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I posted awhile ago,a question,but more has happened/I am so confused!
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Really..to get up to speed..I graduated this past May..but At the beginning of the year, everything was normal between me and one of my teachers, but as the year went on, I realized that he started doing strange things, like telling other kids(as a joke), that they should no even make eye contact with me..or one time he said in class one day, that he loved me and that I will always have a special place in his heart. He would make these little remarks like, He saw me before graduation, he told me I looked beautiful, and said that this year was unforgetable because he feels that he has become a better person, teacher, because I opened his eyes to giving people an opportunity to succeed. I am gonna be 19 and him 25. I have talked to some friends.. and most just tell me I just took what he said wrong, and I should forget it..but everytime I get convinced, yeah..it probably was nothing..or he didnt mean it, something else happens..and it makes me think otherwise. As for me, in all honesty, I do like him, as we did spend a lot of time together. He told me at the end of the year, that he did like me, and hoped that any guy that dates me, realizes how lucky he is. I really don't know if these feelings are 'real'. (all of this was said in my last post)

The New News is...I caught up with my teacher recently.. and it was at school and when he saw me, he told me, 'hey..before you leave, you have to check out my office..you haven't been up there yet.' So, He went to class and I went up to see what he was talking about, and he had this pic. of us that I gave him at the end of the year, framed...I was like...huh? I was like..wow..really was not expecting that. It was like the only thing he had in his office too. He didnt have anything else personal. Part of me says, wow, thats nice of him, and then the other part is like...a little strange? I just didn't see him as that "personal" of a person. I just dont know how to take all of this..Do I take it as a compliment and forget it??
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A teacher has a bond of trust and responsibilty with a student. Your teacher is over stepping the mark by making in appropriate remarks towards you (no matter how 'loving' they seem). Regardless of the fact that he is 25 and you are 19 it is highly irresponsible of him to make his feeling known in such a manner. Maybe his feeling are real, maybe he has said this to other students in private. His first duty is as a teacher. If he were much older, say 52 for arguments sake, you would not be focusing on that fact that some...
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I agree with Peter on almost everything. What I do differ with him on is that I would seek the advice of the school counselor or some other teacher you trust at the school. I think getting another person who knows him..their perspective on the situation is the best thing to do before you confront him yourself. I would do this as soon as possible due to the uncomfortability of the situation.
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I think it is strange but he isn't much older than you. If it gives u bad vibes I would follow those. If your really not intrested then just take it as a compliment and go on. Good luck
Answer Date: 12:17pm 09/05/08
 
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