I have been married 18 years to a decent and hardworking man. He will do anything for anyone except me. He is very out going and has a great number of friends. I use to think that he loved me but that was many years ago. He will not help me with any of the house work except take out the trash,{I have to Put the LIners Back In] He does not cook or help with laundry. Any repairs or improvements to the house ,I have to ask him again and again, and then when he does them, They are always done sloppy and half way.He has taken me to i movie in our entire marrige, He has never taken me out to a club in all these years, He says why go if he doesn.t drink or dance. He makes plans to do things with his friends whether I am off work or not. He has no romance in him at all. He doesn't want me to come to him if I am having any kind of problems. I have to work it out the best way I can. He never buys me presents for christmas or any occasion. He never comforts me when I cry. He will just turn up the volume on the tv. I have tried everything to get him to realize what it is doing/done to our marrige. He always says it is my fault, He has never admitted and will not admit he is wrong. He does tell me that he knows he could treat me better. He has been telling me that for years but he makes no effort. He did admit one time that he does put me last and again he makes no effort. He does expect me to help him with any outside jobs that require 2 people. I can roof a house, Replumb a house, I chop firewood, I service my own car ETC. I am a nice looking woman and a very good person. I have a full time job plus all the work at home. I am not kidding when I say he doesn't bring me flowers, {He did Bring me a Toolbelt to put my tools in}. I am so tired of being neglected and taken for granted. I have no family at all and no one I can turn to for comfort except a little dog. I am insecure about leaving him, I don't know if I can make it on my own, Finacially or otherwise. please advise