Oh, I'm so sorry to here that you lost your mother. I would be nothing with out her. I'm glad you used terms from the Bible. I'm a Lutheran and take great pride in what I believe. And we all have to notice they feel just like us. And the thing was, I was never like this before
my father died. I just want to be who I was, not who I am/
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Mabelann
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I have a problem. I’m always crabby with my mom. I’m 15 and at home. I have nothing to hide from her. I’m not pregnant, nor was I. my boy friend and I were going out for a year and a half then started seeing other people. I always catch myself back talking and saying things that I don’t really mean.
How can I stop my self from causing heart break to her. My Father has committed suicide, my grandfather died, and my dad had cancer but just had surgery to remove it last week, and had a heart bypass in Jan. all in the time period of three years. Could this all have to deal with my actions? How can I cope better with the stress?
How can I stop my self from causing heart break to her. My Father has committed suicide, my grandfather died, and my dad had cancer but just had surgery to remove it last week, and had a heart bypass in Jan. all in the time period of three years. Could this all have to deal with my actions? How can I cope better with the stress?
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You and your family have been through a lot and stress can cause someone to lash out.As imperfect humans parents too can have feelings of inadequacy.
If your mother might criticize you what she might actually be thinking is "I am afraid that I am failing as a mother.Remember your mother had hard times and perhaps struggling with her emotions.Making mistakes is part of learning but for what you are saying we can do better next time.We all have to learn skills in comunications so we can attack the problem and not th...
If your mother might criticize you what she might actually be thinking is "I am afraid that I am failing as a mother.Remember your mother had hard times and perhaps struggling with her emotions.Making mistakes is part of learning but for what you are saying we can do better next time.We all have to learn skills in comunications so we can attack the problem and not th...
Answer Date: 07:04pm 08/17/08
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I think you have had a lot of stress in the last couple of years. Unfortunatley it seems that we always take out our emotions on the person who we know gives us the most unconditional love. Probably because you know that you can and your mother will love you no matter what. You need to find a hobby or something that you enjoy doing to take that stress away. Maybe kickboxing or a physical sport will help you direct your stress in a positive way. Also remember that your mom feels the same emotional pain that you do, and h...
Answer Date: 05:35pm 08/17/08
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