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I think I fell for him, and I am really confused with his actions / my feelings!
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I had this teacher,that I started to realize that sometimes he would flirt with me, but he really never did anything that made me feel weird or uncomfortable but after awhile, he started doing things, like making fun of little things I would do in class, or he would say, 'I love you, I just want you to know that.', or you will always have a special place in my heart. and when he saw me before
graduation, he told me I looked beautiful, and said that this year has been a
year he won't forget, because he feels that he has become a better person,
teacher, everything because I opened his eyes to giving people an opportunity
to succeed.The year was full of moments like that.
I will be 19 and he will be 25. Now, I am starting to question how I feel about him, It's like he slowly seduced me all year? I just don't know if these 'feelings' between us are real?
I graduated so I am no longer a student at school and I just don't know why
all of a sudden, I find myself feeling this way. Its like as long as I was a
student at the same school that he was my teacher I would never have even
looked at him like that. He never bluntly asked me out or anything, but he did
say at the end of the year that he did like me, and he hoped that any guy who
dates me realizes how lucky they are.
He would make these remarks like, I saw him in the hallway and he came out
of one of the classroom and told these kids, get to class, because there is a
beautiful girl in the courtyard, and brushed my shoulder, as he passed by. He
would also tell other kids(as a joke), that they should not talk to me, even
make eye contact with me. I didn't know how to respond.
Do I test the waters with him, or just forget him all together? Its sort of like, my heart tells me one thing, but the reality of the way people think makes me feel like I have to think other wise. even though I graduated..I don't want either of us to get a bad reputation .
graduation, he told me I looked beautiful, and said that this year has been a
year he won't forget, because he feels that he has become a better person,
teacher, everything because I opened his eyes to giving people an opportunity
to succeed.The year was full of moments like that.
I will be 19 and he will be 25. Now, I am starting to question how I feel about him, It's like he slowly seduced me all year? I just don't know if these 'feelings' between us are real?
I graduated so I am no longer a student at school and I just don't know why
all of a sudden, I find myself feeling this way. Its like as long as I was a
student at the same school that he was my teacher I would never have even
looked at him like that. He never bluntly asked me out or anything, but he did
say at the end of the year that he did like me, and he hoped that any guy who
dates me realizes how lucky they are.
He would make these remarks like, I saw him in the hallway and he came out
of one of the classroom and told these kids, get to class, because there is a
beautiful girl in the courtyard, and brushed my shoulder, as he passed by. He
would also tell other kids(as a joke), that they should not talk to me, even
make eye contact with me. I didn't know how to respond.
Do I test the waters with him, or just forget him all together? Its sort of like, my heart tells me one thing, but the reality of the way people think makes me feel like I have to think other wise. even though I graduated..I don't want either of us to get a bad reputation .
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He had a big time crush on you, that's for sure! But, a student/teacher relationship is forbidden. I'm wondering if you're the only girl he flirted with! Maybe he has problems - perhaps best to forget about him! If you did end up in a relationship with him, could you be sure he wasn't flirting with other students like he did with you?
Answer Date: 09:48pm 07/31/08
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This is a tough question because teachers can be very confusing people. You never really know how to handle their actions or comments sometimes. From the examples of him flirting with you, I think he was certainly attracted to you. If you really like him and feel like there is chemistry, then go for it! Six years really isn't too big of an age difference. There's people who are getting married lately who have a 20 year age difference. And also, I wouldn't worry to much about your rep. I don't think too many people are g...
Answer Date: 10:23pm 07/31/08
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you are an adult sweety.He is only 5 or 6 years older than you. the heart wants what the heart wants. If you feel he was sincere and not toying with your feelings than go for it. What have you got to loose? If he is interested and feels the same way then only as you get to know him wo
uld you grow to know whether he is a player or a decent man. Take the step and go for it. Life is too short for "if only's"! Good luck and look fabulous when/if you see him!...
uld you grow to know whether he is a player or a decent man. Take the step and go for it. Life is too short for "if only's"! Good luck and look fabulous when/if you see him!...
Answer Date: 12:34am 08/15/08
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