hello, that is pretty serious! do you think you love him? maybe make time together with eachother and as well as your son, and maybe see what happends then. it would be a big risk if you moved out of state with him not knowing if you love him. i guess it is just a big risk to take!

Ask him how he realy feels about you.

4 months is still a little to early 4 you both to know what u want to do with everything.. meaning like settling down and moving away.. yes it is hard when us r workin dif shifts an all but are you both doing it 4 your baby?? working dif shifts so there is some1 home 2 look after him/her?? coz that is a good thing he is doing 4 you.. and does he love and treat your baby right and spend time with him/her? those are the little things u should look at aswell you know because not many people would want a person who has read...

4 months is still a little to early 4 you both to know what u want to do with everything.. meaning like settling down and moving away.. yes it is hard when us r workin dif shifts an all but are you both doing it 4 your baby?? working dif shifts so there is some1 home 2 look after him/her?? coz that is a good thing he is doing 4 you.. and does he love and treat your baby right and spend time with him/her? those are the little things u should look at aswell you know because not many people would want a person who has ready made kids.. i think there is nothing 4 you 2 worry about because if he can do that then i think you would be fine.. the other thing is you need to learn 2 trust eachother also.. because without trust then your relationship may not last long.. if u both are happy to see each other when yous get the chance then you have nothing to worry about.. do little things for each otha but it must be a mutual thing and u cant have 1 doing more then the otha.. like take his lunch to him at work or make it in the evening etc.. and he do the same.. all those sorts of things.. doing all that will most definately bring your relationship much closer.. dont worry about working away from eachotha or dif shifts.. there is nothing wrong with it but u need 2 trust him if u want 2 have a secure relationship..it is hard but u get use to it.. only coz u both havent been together 4 very long.. u will know if there is something wrong.. if he is not happy with things and doesnt want to do anything 4 you, then it is time to sit down and talk about it.. settling down is a good thing and there is nothing wrong with it.. if you want to have anotha baby maybe u should talk about it first and think about it financially.. me personally i love kids.. but if u deside to then dont move.. if you want to move, there is nothing wrong with it but make sure its a good location situated round schools close to town or work and as long as it is a good job thats gona get you on your feet so u can start a new future together.. so have a think about all that and plan it b4 hand.. as 4 your relationship, i think u guys will be fine and if yous argue at times there is nothing wrong with that because there is no such thing as a perfect relationship where u dont argue and dont have probs..u will always have problems, u will fight, hurt eachother, get jealous of something or some1, lie to eachother.. but as long as u trust 1 another thats as perfect as its gona get.. so learn to trust him..