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why does my boyfriend never want to tell me when he's mad with me or sad about something? he likes to just avoid it and never mention it...it makes me sad, because i want him to be able to tell me anything he's feeling...we've been going out long enough
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Guys are usually emotionless, we have a built in instinct to hide our emotions or at least try and hide them. Most guys are usually numb from the brain down when it comes to emotions, we consider it a weakness we prefer not to have exposed outside our armour-like exterior. We believe that our problems are our problems and sharing them makes us less than masculine. If he's not telling you why he's upset with you it is because he cares too deeply and that he might hurt you. A common practice for descent males. Word of adv...
Answer Date: 07:23pm 03/07/08
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The only place men have emotion is in their PANTS.....nothing else is important to them other than keeping THAT happy.... anything that needs conversation to resolve it or the slightest bit of TLC would be far too complex and therefore well worth brushing under the carpet and pretending all's well. As for communication to share thoughts and feelings, FORGET IT... Its much easier for them to pump away in pretence . . .
Answer Date: 08:04pm 03/07/08
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guys open up to someone they can trust, if hes not opening up to you hes probally hiding something hes ashamed of or just too shy for your taste. find out what it is
Answer Date: 08:17pm 03/07/08
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well guys are usually like that, they dont want to drop there emotions on you so they hide them, you should just talk to him and say "hey your know u can tell me anything right even if its personal because u can trust me and i trust you " after saying something like that he will probobly start telling you everything but if u say that u have to be cool of wat he tells you or he will never trust you again. anyway thats my opinion good luck!!...
Answer Date: 10:39pm 03/07/08
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Hey girl, that is the typical genetic make up of a man. It is a known fact that our hormones create this difference. Women are naturally more in touch with their emotions. That is why men suffer more when divorced, seriously ill, faced with death, financial struggles and children. Men typically bottle their feelings. This is why the suicide rate is higher with men.
What you can try is to be his mate, not just his girlfriend. Gain his trust that he has with his friends by being one of them. Do not go out and over...
What you can try is to be his mate, not just his girlfriend. Gain his trust that he has with his friends by being one of them. Do not go out and over...
Answer Date: 11:36pm 03/07/08
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This is the biggest difference between men and women...men are internal and women are external, and it's hard for both to recognize the other. When women have a problem, they like to talk about it with their friends, boyfriends, husbands, family, etc., and by doing that they figure out how to solve them. Men like to keep things inside, mulling over it inside their head over and over again, maybe going to one or two trusted friends for advice. Then, if it takes too much thought or we can't solve it, we dismiss it. Women ...
Answer Date: 02:29am 03/08/08
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well thats a man just live with it or get out
Answer Date: 02:53pm 03/08/08
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