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ok, my best friend is dating my boyfriends best friend...so my boyfriend's best friend (my best friend's boy), we'll call him joe, is a really fun guy to be around...the all around nice guy. we are also good friends...and just friends, i know for a fact that i do not like him, but sometimes i don't think my boyfriend, or friend like me being friends with him. I value their relationships way more, but still enjoy being friends with joe. If they feel uncomfortable with us being friends is it a bad thing? what should i do? Or should i just let it be?
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Keep yourself a bit distance from Joe and make your bf and best friend comfortable that you are not very close to Joe to snatch him from her.
Just be good friends.:)
Just be good friends.:)
Answer Date: 08:23am 03/10/08
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HI
i really think if they are true friends then they shouldnt mind u being friends with this guy, a true friend will stick by u no matter wat,
i really think if they are true friends then they shouldnt mind u being friends with this guy, a true friend will stick by u no matter wat,
Answer Date: 06:56pm 03/07/08
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Sounds like your boi is slightly jealous as is your best friend (joe's girl). Best thing to do is hang ten, be friends with them all but kinda step back a little from Joe and hang closer with the others. Try and play it up like Joe is an OK guy but that the others are way cooler than him. Also get together with your BF and just talk, when she mentions Joe say something like Joe's cool, but he has big ears. Mention something that you find unattractive about him be classy and not rude about it....
Answer Date: 07:02pm 03/07/08
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It's just jealousy. On both sides (your best friend and your boyfriend).
You should continue to be friends...there's nothing wrong with that. But you need to reassure your boyfriend that you're his girl, and that nothing's happing between you and his best friend. Your friend also needs to reassure his girlfriend, your best friend, of the same thing.
You should continue to be friends...there's nothing wrong with that. But you need to reassure your boyfriend that you're his girl, and that nothing's happing between you and his best friend. Your friend also needs to reassure his girlfriend, your best friend, of the same thing.
Answer Date: 07:03pm 03/07/08
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ok i think tht friends are nover 4 ever and by hanguin out to much whit him u can loose ur bf and ur bff whos dating him sow u shud get away ust alitle bit sow there wont be sow much truble!
Answer Date: 07:23pm 03/07/08
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ok seriously, your boyfriend is somewhat insecure if you are in love there will be a trust between you too. I have a girfriend and she has friends who are guys and girls. So understand he has trust issues, its the most important part of your relationship. You must have it
Answer Date: 08:26pm 03/07/08
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It sounds like your ALL friends. They shouldn't mind no more than you mind the others being friends with eachother. Maybe you should just tell them that.
Answer Date: 06:30am 03/10/08
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