This method of creating attraction works so well that it’s been adapted into movies such as “Just Friends” with Ryan Reynolds, watch this movie if nothing else you’ll get a great laugh. The basic premise of acting aloof is showing the woman that you are not easily swayed by her presence, beauty, status and opportunity for sex. Doing this makes you stand out in her mind from all the other “googly-eyed”, clingy needy guys that try to pick her up on a daily basis. You will be a breath of fresh air, a bit of a m...

This method of creating attraction works so well that it’s been adapted into movies such as “Just Friends” with Ryan Reynolds, watch this movie if nothing else you’ll get a great laugh. The basic premise of acting aloof is showing the woman that you are not easily swayed by her presence, beauty, status and opportunity for sex. Doing this makes you stand out in her mind from all the other “googly-eyed”, clingy needy guys that try to pick her up on a daily basis. You will be a breath of fresh air, a bit of a mystery and an all around the most normal guy she’s met in a long time. This will create a vacuum in her psyche which must be filled by her being interested in you. Just ask any girl how she feels when a guy doesn’t seem to be all that interested in her; she’ll probably tell you that she will make sure he’s interested. And with most certainty as soon as she accomplishes that she’s done with him.

Being aloof works and it will get you immediate results. Just as long as you remain that way… forever! This is where it completely falls apart. To keep up this type of attraction that was created with acting aloof you have to keep being aloof or else it won’t be congruent with whom she thinks you are. If you’re like the other 99.99% of us guys you would burst on the inside if you really did develop true feelings for her somewhere far down the line but couldn’t tell her because it would ruin the attraction.

The other long term effects even if you chose not to go any further than a couple dates (or one night) with a woman is that you will become so emotionally detached from women that you will find it hard to have strong feelings for a woman that you want to have strong feelings for. You have trained you body not to go down that road and your mind and body are obedient; they won’t!

Being aloof only creates a false one-way connection. It is false because you are creating a false sense that she cannot have you. They way we are wired is to go after what we cannot have. So she will only be interested in you because on some level she feels that you’re a challenge and cannot have you but once she has you there is no point in being interested in you anymore. This sometimes happens on an unconscious level that neither the woman will know why she isn’t interested in you anymore. She will feel and say to herself “I was so interested in him when I first met him and now that I finally have him it’s just not there anymore”

You have to start it how you plan on ending it is a motto to go by in any relationship. You buy her expensive gifts and take her to expensive places be quite assured that you will have to do this on an ongoing basis.I am sure you want to build something real and with less effort and games don’t you?
You want to be yourself and create that attraction in the woman you desire without being manipulative. As an aside please remove the notion from your mind that we aren’t animals and that attraction just happens! Aaaank, wrong! You are an animal and like every other animal we too have a mating dance.

You still have to do abide by those rules some of these rules include, not being needy, being a challenge, fun, interesting, and not so googly-eyed.

So to create the same and better affects that being aloof creates is a simple process of becoming aware. This is more of a life concept than a dating concept. You have to become aware of her on all levels, physical, emotional and mental. No more being lost in thought, your job is to give her your complete presence. This doesn’t mean that you become a love-sick puppy that stares into her eyes like a stalker plus no one likes a neutered man. Plus, a woman knows it isn’t real and is instantly turned off.
A woman yearns to have your undivided attention it is more important than you think. She would prefer to have 30 minutes of your complete presence than 3 hours of you barely being in the moment.
For another exercise try being present with the next 5 people you see. Really take them in, listen to them and then respond accordingly, look then in the eyes with love and respect and show then that you are 100% there in the moment with them. You will be surprised with the results.

Because the most part of guys try to seduce them,cause all of us know that women love someone who cares and blablabla...everybody use the same tactics,so they start to search somethin' different,and the different guy is the guy who don't care,who's indifferent to them...etc.
they attract cause they don't control him and cause they don't know why he's like that...it's easy man,so good luck!

Aloofness means neglecting the woman and which creates curiosity in some of them as to why did you chose to be aloof and ultimately you will achive your goal to attract woman.

Bless!... You don't have to be and (in my opinion) women like to know that they are being thought of... if however you are playing hard to get the aloof is probably the best way to go?!

No one said you have to be aloof. It's just a matter of which girls you're trying to attract. What matters at the end of the day is still sincerity... and that doesn't only mean getting into her pants.