I have never had this experience but ofcourse they do give god report as well.

Read this reply from an expert for a victim.

write all this down on a peice of paper. and take it to the solicitors.. eg when contact started when it stopped. the childrens problems etc.. i shou...

I have never had this experience but ofcourse they do give god report as well.

Read this reply from an expert for a victim.

write all this down on a peice of paper. and take it to the solicitors.. eg when contact started when it stopped. the childrens problems etc.. i should think 11 and 12 is old enough to have a say.
i would get in touch with caffcas straight away. and try and get a full custody order. the courts for one would make him disclose where he is living. i would make sure you go to court or you can end up in trouble.
finally ask the kids what happened when they went explain they wont be in trouble and you just want to make sure they are okay reasure them that you love them.
i dont want to worry you more but it seems to me that somthing has happened it seems a very severe reaction to be wetting the bed etc.. at that age..
perhaps ask the caffcas officer to speak to the children alone and then they may get a better idea.
the courts gennerally go with what caffcas recomend.

i hope this helps.. try not to worry i know its hard but the children will be able to tell your upset and may not want to worry you!

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